I just want to move on. I want to be free. I want to forget about love and crushes.. I wish my feeling is not existing.. I want to feel nothing. huhu.. help me out! especially in my age, 14. but I can't really explain what is it. I know some of you know what is it. =(
2006-09-18 00:56:52 · 9 answers · asked by sakura 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well...i suggest u take more interests in other things, like making new friends, and music, etc etc. iv felt like u , and trust me one day u will forget all this ur going thru.
2006-09-18 01:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very delicate growth period for you. Your feelings are all new and extreme in intensity. The best I can suggest sweetie is that when those negative feelings surface reorient yourself as to what you are doing at the moment and where you are. Sounds silly but it works. For instance when your mind is wondering say to yourself , " I am at my desk in class learning about (whatever) and I have a pencil in my hand." Then focus on that class. When not in class get busy with girlfriends,sports,clubs, helping at home, studying,etc...
The intensity of this pain will pass. However, keep in mind that this is a growing period and you will have many boyfriends in your life time. Take the time for yourself now to just enjoy being a teen. Also get rid of any momentos you are saving; it doesn't help to have them around.
2006-09-18 08:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be kept busy, join some clubs, or classes, just get involved, there is a whole world out their, but you have to put yourself into getting busy. Crushes and the love thing is normal, just leave it at that, work hard to do well in school. That is the main thing. Set goals for your self, and aim for them. So stay focus.
2006-09-18 08:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww. You will learn to control your feelings as you mature. At 14, it's a horrendous roller-coaster for some people. Ranging from intense anger, to abject dejection. Hang in there...it does get better! Do you have a good friend you can discuss your feelings with? It might help if they can reflect something back to you about their experiences so you don't feel so alone in this.
2006-09-18 08:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by medium_of_dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dearm, u are too young to go for a love relationship and that will hurt. a good age will be 20 at least when u are mature enough to know what to look for in a boy friend. u won't want to have someone who just look for sex or not willing to be a good husband. meantime focus on your studies and get to know more good friends who willing to share with u the goodness of life instead of all these intrigues.
2006-09-18 10:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotions are tough on a young person. Find somewhere else to burn up these feelings. Try volunteer work.
2006-09-18 08:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by auld mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is one of the questions that im thinking about.....
well..... i also dont want to have a feelings in
love or crushes...... i just want to focus my self in my self....
thats all.... but.. its hard to control our self....
you need to follow your heart...
2006-09-18 08:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some time to get over him...it will get better!
2006-09-18 08:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by marjoleindnl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know leh
2006-09-18 08:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋