how do g0ys go along handling their relationships with their man lovers. Do they keep it secret or what. What tpye of physically or emotional intamant love do they have besides anal sex
2006-09-18 00:54:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
G0y relationships are about friendships first and then if the friendship deepens sex may become a part of the friendship. We traditionally do not do hookups we are not into anal sex and we are not into the stereotypical gay behaviors. We offer no apology and we are not ashamed of being homosexual. We make a distinction between our behaviors because we see that the word gay has a certain stigma associated with it. We feel that when you say the word gay you immediately think of anal sex or of gender bending drag queens. This is not the kind of things we associate with. We love men not men pretending to be women.
We do not do anal sex and we are not generally intimate with those that do anal sex. We do have theological arguments for those having an issue accepting their sexuality due to being a Christian. But this is not the focus of being g0y. The main reason we do not do anal sex is that the anus is not a sexual organ and anal sex is the leading vector for spreading STD's. We see it as a degrading act to practice on another human being be it male or female. We think the anus is a nasty place to stick any part of your body.
If you where in a restaurant and I told you the waiter did not wash his hands after visiting the rest room you would not want to eat there anymore. What then is the difference with regards to doing anal sex? You can not tell me that the anus is cleaner than a guys hand after he wiped his butt. This is the stigma associated with being gay.
We are Guys who love other guys we freely admit this is homosexual love we just don’t identify as gay and we make no apologies for not taking that label.
2006-09-18 06:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think they keep it secret, because they're ashamed of being gay in the first place. From the few I've seen (on yahoo answers), they are already in open relationships - whether they tell their boyfriend/girlfriend that they're having sex with other people.
They state that anal sex is wrong because it is dirty and spreads STDs, yet they have multiple 'buds' that they have oral sex with. Hello? Monogamy is the true answer to STDs, not obstaining from anal sex!!!
Their website is what REALLY makes me angry - because they claim that being gay is wrong...and the 'a' in gay refers to AIDS.
These guys can claim to do whatever they want - I don't care what they do privately, but don't push that self-righteous CRAP on people. Don't say that anal sex is wrong because the bible says it is...and then turn around and say the bible says that oral sex between two men is right.
People that take the bible's teachings into their own interpretation have issues - and they're abusing the bible to their own liking.
2006-09-18 08:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Vancouver-snuggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i took a look at the g0ys site a few months back just to educate myself more and i realised 2 things...
1: g0ys has enough Bible references in their site to make me violently ill. They twist the Bible passages to suit themselves. Their argument basically is "If you don't have anal sex then you won't go to Hell" so therefore it gives an "out" to those who are Christian or otherwise affliated with a religion and being gay. Quite simply, it's a copout. They are a real radical "group" who I now wish I had never heard of...... to me they are just another breed of hater.
2) I never want to visit that site again! >:o|
2006-09-18 02:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mooks 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well firstly g0ys dont have anal sex!
have a lookabout on www.g0ys.org
2006-09-18 01:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apart from the anal sex thing i dont see a lot of difference ...id imagine they would work it out on the same way all people do compromise
is goy mostly an American thing?..it seems like a further marginalization to me,like gay but with an apology
2006-09-18 01:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by Bearable 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No, g0y means a guy who has intercourse with the two men and girls yet on no account has any anal intercourse with the two. you ought to make it time-honored which you're bisexual. in spite of if, love works between 2 human beings at maximum. while greater suitable than 3 are in contact, you have difficulty.
2016-10-15 03:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They kiss, touch, fondle, cuddle, fellate, masturbate, but no anal sex. As for keeping things secret, I guess it's personal choice.
2006-09-18 01:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go wit Tom or Chris, dey got da onfo.
2006-09-18 02:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the first person
2006-09-18 07:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Non-jewish people ("goys") have the same type of relationships as everyone else.
2006-09-18 04:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋