with certain people im SOOOOOOOO outgoing and with other people (like on my bus) im like wicked shy. its really weird, how can i become more outgoing in certain situations??
2006-09-18 00:35:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that is difficult, but not unfeasible...listen, first u should love urself and the aspects of ur character coz it's YOU, yourself...anyway, some tips: 1. talk to other people for some matters, not especially serious and don't let ur shyness prevent u from expressing ur views in any kind of discussion and matter. be aware of this: people respect more persons who dare to express their views in contrast with shy and people who say yes, it's ok for everyhing and to everyone. 2. join a sports club and find new friends ( without forgetting the old ones - believe me i became more social by joining new companies and by finding more and more friends!). u can always start a discussion with a person close to ur age ( so to have more in common) in the bus or wherever, and suggest them to go out, for a cafe, '' what bout that new movie?? do u wanna watch it together??'', and bla bla. 3. remember: when a new person intrigues u, start right that second approaching them, by telling a good joke, the best way....4. do what the people who deal with public relations do : remember birthdays, zodiac signs, wishes or just call to ask people u r not that close sth....5. flirt!! that's one of the most refreshing things!! don't be afraid if u get the mitten....such is life...remember: who takes risks, is wiser...ok, hope i've help u! good luck!!
2006-09-18 01:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, no one can change you,, as everyone is different, you can always try talking to one of the person and ask them can you seat next to them on the bus and casual talk about the latest movie and what she has seen and so on. and maybe soon this chat could lead up to more chances on meeting her friend and than everyday you got something to talk about, but remember do not be someone you are not.. good luck and always have a smile =)
2006-09-18 08:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I am like that too. Just try to be friends with the ppl on your bus and you will start opening up. I was like that too until I just started talking to ppl I didn't even know and some of them turned out to be my closest friends.
2006-09-18 07:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self and talk the people on the bus and get to know them better and you will open up more
2006-09-18 07:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i think u shud .....more interact wid all ppl.....u shud go out .....wid frendzzzzz ......
2006-09-18 08:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by Neha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be open then
2006-09-18 07:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋