and will u still have sex with someone u is friends with because im in this situation where i was in a relationship with this girl and i have a attitude problem and she said we are just going to be friends until i work on my attitude and get counsiling for it do u think if i get the help i need that she will want to be with me again because i have been faithful to her and i have been a good man to her its just that i have a anger problem and i sometime take things out on her i love her very much what should i do to get her back
2006-09-18 00:03:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should do like she has suggested for you to do. Get some counseling for your anger problem so that you can learn how to control it. Otherwise you will lose this girl for good. I'm sure she loves you just as much as you love her, but she can't take the angeryou have all the time. Maybe this will be a serious wake up call for you if you really want to be with her. You need to fix this anger problem not only for her, but for yourself as well. You will feel a lot better once you can get it under control. Life is too short to be angry all the time. Good luck!!!
2006-09-18 00:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stick with your counseling it will help you not just with her but it will help YOU anger scares people (women) women are beaten every minute of every day. Not to be ugly but she doesn't want to end up your punching bag, and that's good for her. You may not be violent now but what about next month next week, dont get the help just to get her back, mean it really work on it (your anger not getting her back) once she sees you are really working hard and mean it Things can work out,
but man stay with getting help you at least you have an anger problem and that is a big thing and the first step
2006-09-18 00:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should work on getting yourself sorted out first, because that is obviously the main issue of why you relationship broke up in the first place.
Think of why you have attitude problems is it jealousy, or do you have other stressful issues in your life such as work etc.
I always say that it's not worth fighting or arguing, because it doesn't solve anything.
I myself just stay quiet if i have a issue with my partner so i can think it through before i say anything, this usually tends to work.
Or write my thoughts down so i know what to say.
Get help, talk things through with her and tell her your sorting yourself out, and think of whether it might even be a good idea to take time away from her so you really know what you want.
2006-09-18 00:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you better adjust on that problem of yours... in a relationship, you must learn to adjust... it is a give and take relationship... you should be open to her that you have a problem with your attitude and you are trying to work out on it... ask her for another chance, show to her that you are changing for the sake of your love for her... do not just say that you love her very much but show it, prove it to her... maybe she'll realize that your love is really true... also remember that " action speaks louder than words"
2006-09-18 00:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was her and you took your anger out on me....i wouldnt come back....but thats just me
but sort your problem out and get yourself right cause there will always be someone else and you need to treat her right...
good luck with the councilling
2006-09-18 00:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girl is giving you a chance and seems she loves you a lot. go to her and at the same time have a counseling.
2006-09-18 00:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by journey2paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship which needs COUNSELLING just at the starting stage.........hmm think about it.....a healthy relationship needs TRUST, FAITH, LOVE, CARE..............if u have all this in ur relation ........u will never need COUNSELLING...... i mean u will never need a THIRD person to make ur relation.........ONLY U BOTH CAN MAKE THE RELATION HEALTHY...........sooooo try to understand each other....if ur love is really TRUE.......nothing can stop U.............GUDLUCK..
2006-09-18 00:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by archie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep hold of her she is giving u a chance and get some counselling
2006-09-18 00:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by pete 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its alright,try to change yrself a bit!!
2006-09-18 00:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by terri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋