2006-09-17 23:49:49 · 14 answers · asked by miss unsure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I questioned him and he says its in my head. He is never home and takes his lap top everywhere
2006-09-18 00:12:41 · update #1
The only way to really prove/investigate is to find out somehow what sites he's been on...you can check the "cookies" on his laptop, after finding out what sites he's been on-create a (or have a good friend do it) new email account for yourself (completely fictional in the profile) and initiate a conversation with him on one of the sites. Save them all and when he"invites" this fictional person to meet somewhere...go meet him and let him know HE'S BUSTED. (Time consuming, but worth every minute)
2006-09-18 02:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by stacilynn26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are tons of programs out there that you can secretly install on your partner's computer that will tell you passwords, internet history, give you full chat conversations, porn downloading, and so forth. If you google things like "catch him cheating" or whatnot you will find sites that give you links to these types of programs. I think the tops ones are about $99. People use these programs also for monitoring children on the net.
2006-09-17 23:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by actresscye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he isn't cheating and he finds out ; he soon will be. Keep looking and you will find what you seek. If you think he's cheating he probably already is. And if you treat him with mistrust in this venue then you are probably pushing him to it. You can't control what another person thinks and or does. If it is his intention to cheat he will find a way whether he takes his laptop w/him or not. Inevitably the truth will surface so don't make yourself ill. He's supposed to be your partner not your competition and enemy.
2006-09-18 00:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he play games on there that you know of? Do you know his i.d.? Maybe sign on to a game he likes to play and watch for him...if you see him, strike up a convo with him......and see where it goes....other than that, if he takes his laptop everywhere, then you probably won't be able to have time on it to see.
As far as him saying it's all in your head.........yeah, that's what they ALL say.....
2006-09-18 00:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by bluez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this how u can catch him u can look on the history mine says go u right click on that and u can got back to everything he has looked at. one time when he is on the laptop sneak up on him and see how he acts
2006-09-18 01:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by prettyerinpink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try looking in the history. Or when he is on line try to sneak up on him to see what he is doing on line. Find out his password, then go to his e-mail if possible. Or check his instant message history archive.
2006-09-18 00:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by karen j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could tell you check History, temporary Internet Files, etc, but really why don't you have an adult conversation with him?
2006-09-17 23:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Atomin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used "Big Brother" spyware. It was about $40 and worked fine.
I downloaded it online.
2006-09-18 00:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so not cool.if they are cheating it`s because they are not getting anything at home. so smart`n up and start doing what needs to be doing.
2006-09-17 23:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a mail using different user ID and try not to uncover your real you until you have enough evidence to face him
2006-09-17 23:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by c_k566 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋