The university started weeks ago but nobody wants to be my friend because am ugly, I really have a great personality but yet no one is interested in talking to me T__T
2006-09-17 23:37:52 · 11 answers · asked by James 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stop trying to talk with them.... try this may be will work
2006-09-17 23:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are not ugly. Nobody in this world is ugly. We are all beautiful beings made by God. I also find it quite difficult making friends, but discovered that people thought that I was unfriendly, which I am not (just shy). You need to show an interest in people. Just try it out with one person. Ask them if they want to get a drink or do something and take it from there. Try and look for people with similar interests as you. Good luck!
2006-09-18 06:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably trying too hard, and people translate that into desperation. Just relax, find a groove and go with it. Looks are not important to the right people, so if they don't like you because of the way you look, you don't need them for friends anyway. If you fit in anywhere, work with that. In college, I was big into journalism/writing, and so I hung with the nerds. Nowadays, that's a hip thing, but back then, it was like the kiss of death in Coolsville. LOL!
I know it sounds corny, but just be yourself and don't worry about other people. :) You will make friends. A good place to start is church. (And I'm not preaching. This is really a good place to meet friends).
Good luck!
2006-09-18 06:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is really sad. Just be yourself and it will happen. If you try too hard to be someones friend then that can turn them away. Join some groups and maybe you will find some friends there.
Keep your head up! It will happen.
2006-09-18 06:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by pa_susie99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend........first of all come out of this COMPLEX ..... which u r in now.......now think coollly.....are every one perfect in this world? ...no friend ....there is nothing called PERFECTION in this world.....the reason why u r not able to make friends is ....u have no SELF-CONFIDENCE......if u have confidence it will show on U.....u can talk to people around u very confidently, u will try to know them and allow them to know U.......may be they think that U are not interested in making friends.......don't make them think like that ..........and GET GOING..........u said u have a great personality ........soooo......it is an added BONUS.... u will surely find more friends than u have expected.......believe me .........ALWAYS BELIEVE URSELF........... then only u can understand others..........so be a sport ......gooooooo....ur friends are waiting for U..........gudluck.....
2006-09-18 06:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by archie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go to univeristy, why not join the union clubs which you like like Anime clubs where everybody shares the same interested as you
.. chat to someone in your class and ask them can you seat next to them..
2006-09-18 07:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make friends you not only have to be friendly you also have to accept people as they are. Don't rush thru life in time you'll make a friend if you seek one
2006-09-18 06:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to love yourself, then, everyone will want to be your friend. Truth is hard to understand but this is true.
2006-09-18 06:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by short stack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hah! maybe you over rate yourself!!
Do you really know what friends/friendship mean?
better check it out
2006-09-18 06:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by kapilbansalagra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehehe kool na?
2006-09-18 06:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by Zac Efron Rox!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋