my wife currently has 2 boyfriends she is sleeping with but they are very discreet and difficult to catch. she is neglecting our kids, our relationship etc, so i just need to be able to bust her, she will take the bait, believe me i just am not sure how to go about setting this up this will be in the Atlanta area.
2006-09-17 23:20:21 · 19 answers · asked by spammedcan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why bother if you are willing to let her sleep with someone else. Geez,imagine trying to purge that memory out of your head. Try signing up for an episode of Cheaters. They will get the goods for you. You know what they say..."Be Careful of what you wish for ; you might just get it!"
2006-09-18 01:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are terrible!! Hhahaha.. You sound like me, years ago when I was with a man who cheated on me with these internet girls... UGh!!! I feel you though... This is what you do ok..... You find a man or asks someone you know but make sure it's someone who you can really, really trust and you tell him to test your wife... Now, make sure he's attractive..... Good looking, decent. The kind of guy your wife is going to like and find atttractive. Then, you tell him to do all he can do to get her..... Make sure you can see everything though.... And then you bust her... And make it seem like you don't know the guy and you do your business.... File for divorce, take your kids and leave her. She doesn't deserve you! If you don't do that.... You mind as well just file a divorce now.... And do everything the clean way. After all, it is your call!
2006-09-18 07:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Azn-lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I feel sorry for ya!
Dude you just want to add more fuel to the fire by setting up Baits? , what you can do is talk to her...let her know that YOU know what she has been upto and You wont accept this type of behaviour and move out with your kids.
Remember if you dont put a stop to it now..not only your gonna ruin your life..but also your poor kids life.Yes its hard to talk but You have to take the first step.
Your kids dont deserve a mom like her.
2006-09-18 06:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you need to go away on buisness for 2 - 3 days and you are going to take the kids with because it is some place fun for them (that you got to find on your own) anyway once you "leave" drop the kids at your mom or someone you can trust and go back and wait she will proberly invite the jerks over for a gang bang session and there you go bobs your uncle...
or you could just go the easy way and hire a pi, what ever you do good luck and dont let her get away with it.
2006-09-18 06:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may try something more simple then setting her up with a third boyfriend and hoping something happens out of it. You can simply hire a private investigator. besides if you are looking for help in the courts by you hiring someone to have sex with your wife you are breaking the law yourself.
2006-09-18 06:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jeremy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U need to hire a really nosy friend that has time to do nothing all day.Then she/he can help you follow them for or with u.Create
cellphone records and phone records on line for her to catch the patterns of the calls. Then video tape everything you'll do good need anymore help then just holla!
2006-09-18 06:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by ceeseecee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure this is what you want. Right now you think that shes doing something discreetly but once you know there is no turning back. It might be better to hire a private detective and let him get your pics......they can do things so much easier.
2006-09-18 06:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by fdebbie2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you hire a PI? If you set her up, then it isn't really a bust. Maybe you are just paranoid. Hire a PI and they can get everything you need to get a clean divorce. If she isn't doing anything, you can have a clean conscience. Good luck.
2006-09-18 06:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hire a yard worker who's really hot.
How about contacting Cheater's? It's a TV show that'll do it for you and I believe it's free of charge.
They're very very good. They'll definetly catch her way easy!!!
2006-09-18 07:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
revenge never tastes sweet. After you film her then what? You gonna show all the neighbors?........what if she doesn't care. It still won't change her nor your relationship. Think more about packing rather than setting her up. She's making her own bed ......in time she will have to sleep in it.
2006-09-18 06:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋