this is to settle an argument with a friend. She says no man can keep it in his trousers but I say it depends on the man.
Imagine you are away on your own for a few days, perhaps on a course or conference, and a very attractive woman shows an interest in you. You have a wife or girlfriend at home and your relationship with her is loving and stable. But you're in the bar at the hotel, this new woman is coming onto you and is obviously up for it if you are. You're on your own, away from home and no-one will know. Do you go upstairs and do the dirty deed?
2006-09-17 23:05:11 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I work away from home every week in lots of different countries I have been doing this for 18 months and have sat on planes an in bars and chatted to a lot of very atractive girls some of which I know I could have made a move on BUT not one time did I every do this because I would hate to hurt my girlfriend this bad if she every found out and also I would always know what I did and how bad it was.
One point I should make as a bloke. I always think about it and some of those girls were so fit it was a crime not to try but I already picked a girl and she is the one for me.
2006-09-17 23:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a nutshell i would not. I have been married 10 years next year. And during this time i have been a kickboxing instructor running many classes. This invovles teaching many woman. Single and married. And not being big headed i have had a lot of great offers. But i could not live with the guilt. I have two great kids. I gould not see them hurt in that way. I married my wife on the understanding that she is the one 4me. And that stills stands. Plus it has been done to me once befor. And it hurts like hell.
2006-09-18 00:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not. I am married and do some traveling. I am not interested in anyone other than my wife. I also teach at a community college (part time) and was offered "favors" for a passing grade. Not only did I turn a very attractive, provocatively dressed, young woman down, I told my wife about it that night.
2006-09-18 14:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by math_prof 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if u have any kinda moral values u wouldnt. it shows if u do that that u dont really love your wife or the person which u share a relationship with. relationships are suppose to be based on trust. think about this would u feel ok with her doing the nasty with some other guy. probably not. to many relationships today are killed by that kind of thinkin. no offense dude but u should know already that this isnt right!!
2006-09-17 23:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend question is about her self and bad relationships she’s been through, and to answer her question or yours would be… well all right we have good men and bad men (Women also) We have temptation and problem at home. If the man loves his woman he would do the right thing and not go upstairs, the opposite if he does not.
As for me it would be below me to indulge in such a one-night stand. Because I Love myself and I love my Woman. And I like doing the right thing.
2006-09-17 23:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by Point Blank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be difficult for you to believe but the answer is no. How disrespectful to my wife who brings so much into my life and works hard to keep me happy and energized in every way. I would not do that. Not to mention the diseases in this day and age- to take a chance on bringing that back into my home to my loved ones... never ever.
2006-09-17 23:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. I'm a man and spend lots of time in hotels (about 150 nights a year), and have always said no.
2006-09-17 23:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by thebigtombs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't it say "question for men"? Can you women not keep your bloody noses out of anything? In answer to the question. Women need a reason men just need a place. I wud be up there in a heartbeat, it beats self pleasure hahaha.
2006-09-18 04:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by Harv S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-17 23:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by monkeyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No chance in hell. I couldn't do that to my fiancee. If you really love someone, then it shouldn't be a hard decision. It shouldn't be hard to say no. Besides, in my eye's my fiancee is the most beautiful person I've ever seen. So however good looking this person is, they couldn't compare.
2006-09-17 23:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by kahuna382000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋