2006-09-17 22:38:41 · 32 answers · asked by minu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some people like tragedy more than happy ending. So be it.
2006-09-17 22:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most extra-marital affairs are sordid with a very unhappy end. The reasons of the affair are multiple. People involved in the affair are for some percieved reason unhappy with their mates and just want something different, though they may not be ready to actually have the guts to tell their spouises and end their marriage. Men may just be looking to have some fun outside of their marriage without being serious and women may be just looking for some change from a rut their life has turned into. These are only some broad reasons, there can be many others. Involved people try to rationalize it in various ways, usually finding real or imagined faults or problems with their spouses. Whatever the mechanism, the end is usually bitter, especially for the woman. Have you seen KANK? ShahRukh had the most idiotic role of an utterly bitter and dour man. Ver serious events may happen (See Match Point - very horrifying. Also see Unfaithful which also has a very bad turn). If at all possible, get away from the affair and end it abruptly wiothout any second thoughts - you will be better off.
2006-09-20 13:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really what part of being with a married man is so attractive?
Is it that you are commiting adultry? Is it that you are coming between a man and the woman that he promised to be faithful to?
Is it that he will only give you spare time and give her (the wife) the holildays, the trips, the weekends, the parties, the family gathering. And meanwhile you sit alone in hopes that you might get some moments with him. He will most likely never leave his life with his wife. Also, you two always have to do things in secret. What is attractive about that?
If you are ready for years of being second best and being part of cheating on his family. Then being the other woman just might be what you are looking for.
What is it about your life that makes it OK for you to have a relationship with a married man?
Oh and something else........if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you. Do you find that attractive?
Find a single person and make a relationship with them. And be faithful. Life is so much less complicated when there isn't any cheating.
2006-09-17 22:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i approve that being in love with a married person does not have a happy ending. Sometimes there are happy endings.
Better dont continue your relation. if you do, it may hurt the others.
2006-09-17 22:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Yashna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a relationship with a married man will only end up in tears for you and all other parties involved. Imagine how hurt his wife will be when she finds out. Are there children involved? If so, imagine how their hearts will break if they did find out. In my opinion (I know this is not an easy thing to do), you should end the relationship and find a new single man. You must be under a lot of stress because of this situation and imagine how liberated you would be if you broke free. I do hope you find the strength to do what you need to. Good luck!
2006-09-17 22:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all why a married person, now if u r in love with that person ofcourse that person loves u 2 than i think u can continue if ur relation does not hurt any 1 or i may say till u feel that no 1 knows about it.personally i feel that love should not be bonded by marriage, we all say that we should spread love but by marrying we are putting curb to it, so married or not love should spread, keep loving if it makes u happy and smile.
2006-09-17 22:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by kuneelin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly i need to know your religion. If you are a muslim, there is a possibility that your marriage can end up in happiness, but it would induce some unhappiness in the other party.
what do you want in live? if the risk of being left alone at times and splitting your spouse's focus does not bother you, then go ahead with the relationship, otherwise, look for somebody else. the answer lies in you.
2006-09-18 00:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Kimosabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you somewhat need to decide for, because no you may keep in touch in an affair. it is unacceptable to have an affair. you may desire to be trustworthy with your self and rather all of us it is in contact on your life. the thought is: you may end off the 1st dating earlier commencing off a clean dating. listed below are some issues to evaluate: - Your spouse has been neglecting you for years. Why do you experience which you may desire to care approximately her? Your fault is you probably did no longer stop first earlier having an affair. it is unacceptable. by using ways, you have lost charm on your spouse. Will that make you proceed yet another affair quickly? in case you do, then you somewhat could go away your spouse. - Does the mistress know which you're a married guy? If she does, then she is a sIut and ***** fabric. If she does not know, then i do no longer think of age could rely. you may desire to be trustworthy on your life, mate.
2016-12-12 10:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Voluntary relationships (spouses, friends) are purused to make both people in the relationship happy. If either of you will be unhappy eventually, it will hurt less now to end it than to keep things going and end it later, when the emotional investment is much larger. I hope for the best for you.
2006-09-17 22:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by noodlemcgoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with a married man then you are the lowest grade type person on earth. Happly married couples beware of home wreckers like this.
2006-09-17 22:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by frank s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing you are already having a relationship with this person, you are in love...how about the other persons feelings towards you??? Clearly he/she is cheating on his/her spouse already, so they must not be happy for him/her to be with you. If you both are in love, come clean with the other person about your affair... regardless if you both are in love or not,You owe it to her/him. Someone is going to get hurt anyways, so if you two are meant to be together, so be it. God forbid this to happen in your relationship, which you know it's most likely going to, as it's happening now. let the other person know though so he/she can start healing and get on with his/her life. I'd like to say good luck, but all I feel is shame on you. Marriage is sacred.
2006-09-17 22:53:00 · answer #11 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋