2006-09-17 22:29:02 · 17 answers · asked by karkar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I forgot to tell you that he traveled to another country and I couldn't see him anymore
2006-09-19 01:39:49 · update #1
See Marriages are made on the earth and not in Heaven and for that given no choice you have to decide u got to do it. Believe me my wife saw me for about 10minutes and we are married and living happily since 3years.
To make a choice of your like use your brain procatively. It hardly takes any time to decide coz its all prejudiced. You are just a tool playing your cards.
I youf ask for time to find a mate of your thoughts you maight require one more generation because thinking is a never ending process and thoughts keep changing age wise. I am surely not advising you ignore the basic taste of yours but i am sure if you can find atleast few thoughts of his good, remaing bad if any can be patched up by building stronger bond.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU.
2006-09-17 23:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mechie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure the feelings can be very real after 2 days but my self I would wait a bit after befor getting hitched you know to get to know them as person and not just in a emotional way there history ect this of course can be done while you are married but if there is a mistake it will cost you both a lot more monye to go when you part.
2006-09-17 22:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I was engaged on our 2nd day of knowing each other, we were married about 5 months later, and we have been married for 16 years already. Plus, we were married when I was 18 and he was 19. Love can do anything. :-)
2006-09-18 03:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it go for it. My sister married after one week and is going on 9 years now and i after trying 2 marriages met someone moved in a week after knowing him and married 4 months later and we r still married 13 years now. So all i can say is follow your heart and stomach and if it just feels right don't question it go for it you only live once.
2006-09-17 23:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by hubbys2ndbest2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband proposed to me after 3 days of knowing. We're still married but that doesn't mean it works out all the time.
Good Luck anyway.
2006-09-17 22:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by silverstarlightfairy99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
But - it isn't a good idea.
You found a bedwarmer who fits your pot or the lid.
When the passion is over you may look at things differently.
Then, what is left? Look beyond the pleasures and study carefully,
you may find some flaws somewhere.
Nothing is perfect, especially humans.
2006-09-17 22:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by aheneghana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe its ridiculous to marry someone after such a short time,,it defiles the sanctity of marriage and makes it seem something just to play at. i didn't know my dog after two days of getting him and so far as i know,,people are complex creatures and require time to show the real 'them'.
2006-09-17 22:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!!!! u shud know the person well before taking such a step... bekoz a mariage before god is sacred... we can't just get married and after some months u can't adapt urself to the person, then u just divorce. u need minimum a year to know the person mentally, physically, etc....
2006-09-17 22:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by ticia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it can happen. My ex, met his second wife and knew her for 3 days and they got married. It lasted for 9 years.
2006-09-17 22:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be a desperado. Two days, please even 2 years , you can't really know the person's character. Get to know his friends and family too. Marriage is not simple. You need commitments and compromises.
2006-09-17 22:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by wan2knowhow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋