We've been together for 2 years. Last year he started spending a lot of time away from me, saying he was at "work" but when i confronted him with evidence, he admitted he'd been spending a lot of time with a married friend but said nothing was going on. I asked to meet her and he refused, saying I would act crazy and jealous around her and jeopardize his friendship. He hangs out with her alone mostly and sometimes with her husband present. I've found heaps of soppy messages on his phone from her, she calls him "honey", is continously texting him and asking him over even though they work together and see each other during work hours. I've recently found a tarot reading he did to determine their future as lovers and a note from "a woman to her lover" which has been well thumbed and certainly isn't from me. I always supected something was going on because they're uncomfortable around me but now I feel sick about it. I am too angry to confront him right now. I don't want to lose my cool.
2006-09-17 22:19:41 · 4 answers · asked by noodlemcgoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
aww come on. don't tell me you still don't know they are having an affair. or you are just trying to be blind to the whole thing? you don't need an IQ of 200 to know that.
you don't need to confront him anymore about it. you need to DUMP him! what's the use of asking for his explanation when they are very obvious with what they are doing.
2006-09-17 22:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can only use and abuse you for as long as you let him..Dump this cheat'n dog and find you a real man you can trust!
2006-09-17 22:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him he isn't worth it just say out straight is her her or me and give him a few days to decide and then if he doesnt give you a answer then tell him to get lost.
2006-09-17 23:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok no crap! hes never with you! and if my b/f was with another girl and they were calling eachother baby and honey n stuff i wouldnt be with him ne more.and i know he feels the same way about me
2006-09-18 03:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋