hi ya...my boyfriend told me it was over last sunday and asked me to move out...now 3 weeks ago he found out i had been texting his mate being dirty i know this is really bad and belive me that was the biggest mistake ive eva made...anyway...im still living with him and dont understand what his state of mind is,,,we have not been getting on 4 ages argeueing,etc....i was gonna move to my dads thursday just gone...but he said i could stay untill he come sback from a weekend stag do...now he is back and im still here he has not really said anything..he has just gone straight to sleep in the room downstairs not our bed?/?ive been makeing him cups of tea and telling him i love him..what do you think this means ive told him so many times i love him and im sorry..do you think he still wants me out???or he wants me to stay????AS MANY ANSWERS AS POSSIBLE PLEASE...
2006-09-17 22:06:55 · 10 answers · asked by skinnyminniekitten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
now he told me thursday just gone that i could stay untill he got back from his best mates stag do..now when he got back last night he was ok he did not talk much he went to sleep in his sisters room?he slept there all last night i told him i love him and stuff ive made his dinner to take to his job....i have text him and asked him if we can stay together NO REPLY??? what do you think???
2006-09-17 22:09:08 · update #1
I think he's still angry about u txting his friend and now he is wanting some space to himself and this is probably why he's avoiding u. I say give him more time to work on his issues but be prepared to move out just in case it doesn't work out.
2006-09-17 22:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved him, why were you talking dirty to his friend? Of course, you know it was a mistake now, but don't you think that maybe this is a sign that the relationship is over, regardless of whether or not he takes you back? Do yourself a favor and move out, get on with your life, and date someone who really makes you feel special.
2006-09-18 05:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by p_i_turtle_sanders 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so he already asked you to move out, bad news. but do you have to worsen the situation by texting his mate? how do you expect him to have the compassion for you after all that? the fact that he ignores you everytime should be a good enough answer for you. i'm surprised he still allows you to stay in his place.
best thing to do is have pity on yourself and move out already. i don't think you can still change his mind after all that.
start new. find a new guy. learn from your mistakes. it's painful but it's there already. my teacher once said that 'unfortunately remorse has to be in the end'
2006-09-18 05:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you anymore. You f*cked up and you need to go. Do yourself a favor and start packing your things before he calls the cops to help you out. And next time, when you're with a guy and living with him, don't mess with his friends. You will end up homeless with your stuff on the sidewalk.
2006-09-18 05:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by charliesharky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you love him and move back too your dad's for awhile, just so you guys have some time and space to sort things out. it sounds like he still loves you and may have just kicked you out on impulse. Still you should leave untill you guys work it out.
2006-09-18 05:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Cactus Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to pack up and go. This relationship is well and truly at the undertakers. While you still have some self-respect left get out. And next-time don't cheat on your boyfriend.
2006-09-18 05:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by stepfordswiss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on regardless of how much you love him or if he wants you back, reason being things will never be the same between you guys now, he is not going to trust you and every time you go somewhere or talk on your phone he will question it and it will end up in a fight and he will just bring this up as his defence. as hard as it is you should try move on.
2006-09-18 05:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
And girls complain about men being dense!!!!
HELLO GET OUT AND LEAVE THIS MAN ALONE!! YOU ARE NOT WANTED THERE!!!!
You are a cheater and do not deserve to be with him.
I can't believe you still want to live with him and you're not married, you're not happy, you're not a normal couple or anything!!
What's wrong with you??
He's made himself very clear.
Aren't you feeling really uncomfortable yet?
Go back to your dad's house where you belong and forget about your guy. You have lost it. It's not worth salvaging!!!
2006-09-18 05:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means he doesn't want you around...take the hint and find another place.
2006-09-18 05:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he still loves you he just need time to think away from you give him time
2006-09-18 05:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋