This question may seem ample to answer. But my point that I ask this question for the reason I felt exploited on whats going on in my group. I like to have friends, of course, but if they are just trying me to be foolish in our group, better I would rather to go alone than joining to this useless friends..... As far as I know, I can live without any groups. I merely happy to be alone before but now I want to change. If this is my situation that I felt exploited, do I need to go back the way I usually does? But there are times I felt happy with my group. I still want to join them. Hope they might change........ How does my friends treat me as a friend? and How can I tell if they are really my friend?
2006-09-17 21:51:58 · 5 answers · asked by topet_toperdy 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Honesty is the secret of friendship. If you feel that people are not sincere and loyal, they can never be good friends.
2006-09-17 21:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, friends or people that you think are your friends can only come from within. If you felt exploited, then you need to have a full sense of that. Remember that just because you find yourself in a group of people that accept you, you need to use your sense of wary. Don't speak of others in that group ill, and don't share you opinions within that group. Talk to someone that you know for sure is your friend( usually ones that you have previously established that do not associate with that group). Even talk to your MOM. Mom's usually can give you some good advice. If you felt the way you did for any reason, that means that something wasn't right. Keep true to your senses. Because in the future you may see that you were right not to hang with these people. Being alone isn't the healthy way to go, you can find better people because you sound young. There are more friends out there then you can fathom, they are all just waiting for you. Do not settle for people that will take advantage of you and DO NOT settle for being alone! Life is too short to hang out with dummies, and too long not to find the right ones that can and will make you happy. I believe that with your question, you can find the right people (not criminals) to hang out with. And with some encouragement from a counselor or someone like Mom that you feel close too you will know how to find the right friends. Good luck and I will hope for the best for you.
2006-09-17 22:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by meowzer mix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you feel exploited in a group, you are being exploited. People have a tendency to be unfeeling. Where they see they can gain (even in self exploiration), they will and use it against you later. A group like that is not worth you belonging to. One should always feel conformable in a group. Go lest offent and see if their attitude change. Friends should always make you feel good to be around them. If the feeling is not good, try another group. There are plenty groups out there, keep looking until you find one that is fun to be in and does'nt ask questions about you, just except you the way you are.
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2006-09-17 22:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure, tell her. ****, thats so undesirable. tell her that she treats him like **** and he or she will screw each and every thing and he or she keeps doing so. properly, she probable gets offended with u... yet wats the mind-blowing ingredient to do? proceed to be quiet so she wont get offended at u yet nonetheless see ur buddy C being dealt with badly? or say something and get her offended at u yet take care of C? if i've got been u identity no longer care if she have been given offended at u, identity tell her.
2016-10-01 02:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by marceau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is one that stands by you in moments where you're down and out.
2006-09-17 21:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Azureskies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋