my boyfriend is such a flirt and is constantly looking at other girls trying to get thier attention and he even does it to all my girlfriends and even my cousin! he also signs up to dating websites saying hes single etc. but i dnt think he has actually cheated and he hasnt slept with anyone else before me. do u think i should get out of this relationship now? or stick with it?
2006-09-17 21:28:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, girl...the fact that he's signing up for dating websites saying he's single is a BIG red flag to me! Your boyfriend is definitely not showing you the respect you deserve right now.
That being said, have you tried talking to him about this situation? He isn't going to know his actions bother you unless you tell him that they do. The next time you see him, come right out and say, "It really makes me feel bad when you check out other girls, pretend to be single, etc....and I really wish you wouldn't do that."
Then see if he changes. If he listens to you and makes an effort to change, you'll know that your feelings matter to him. If nothing changes, please let him go and find yourself someone better. You DESERVE better. :)
My thoughts and prayers are with you...
2006-09-17 21:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will he cheat ? It's very simple :) Do you want to get on a merry -go -round of hurt and pain and seeing your heart broken......? If this is not want you want..... then walk away... save yourself from a nightmare.
The fact that he' saying ... 'he single' means " he thinking he single too" - so what does that make you?
Well if anything ... and what you say is true about him not sleeping with anyone else nor has he cheated on you ( by d way here ....you're thinking 2 ) give him some bonus points and then walk away and get on the highway before he takes you to hell's way.
2006-09-18 04:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was respectful to you and satisfied, his actions would be different. Whether or not he will cheat should not be your primary concern. It should be whether or not you are willing to tolerate that kind of treatment from a man. Do you think that's what you deserve? Love yourself first. Your standards should be higher. He seem to be the type that will take all you let him have...to the point of leaving you with nothing...including your self respect.
Already you are put in the position of wondering what will he do. It will only get worst. You must be the master of your fate and to thine own self be true.
2006-09-18 04:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out! He says he is single and acts like a player, sounds like this guy want the best of both worlds and doesn't deserve you. I am sure he wouldn't like it if you were acting like he is. I think you should find someone more deserving like a guy that would brag about having you as his girlfriend to anyone. Good luck!
2006-09-18 04:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh stick with him/ girl he is doing that clasic dumb keep ur girlfriend on her toes that EVERY MAN does / they just keep this a secret but i am aboutto tell it/did you ladies know that men make up sleeping with others just to get you going and so u can become more attracted to them.... it's true believe it and dont let any guys get on here and denye it either... its all true and they leave little trails for us to find it// ladies when we cheat they nver find out it's not that we are smarter/ its that we really are cheating when we cheat and we dont want to get caught so owe erase messages turn off phonesw talk in code etc./ but you ever wonder why that girl picks up his phone by "accident" cause he lets her and yes she is liking that guy but he is 9 times out of ten loving his girfriend and he is scared that she will leave him if she looses interest. al;lll true/// oh also men fake orgasmms too.they do alot sometimes when they diont want to have sex but you did and they act like they did the dew but the didnt..... peace
2006-09-18 04:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by lynnlynnlynnj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if he loves you so everything will be as a funny and interesting.. if not and he be serious in looking to other girls then you have to end..
However, if he looks and acts in front of you that is good, so he is not cheating .
You the one who really let him stick with you not you stick with him!
2006-09-18 04:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sousy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has cheated and will always cheat and he flirts in front of you ...HELLO....girlfriend wake up..why are you so STUPID...He has no Respect for you at all...sorry to sound mean...but you need to wake up...and leave him..and he is on a web-site...yes he is with other woman....
2006-09-18 04:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go. It doesn't matter weather or not he cheats. You don't trust him and he seems to want to be single regardless. Find someone who doesn't make you nuts.
2006-09-18 04:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a dinner, a bottle of campaghne and a flashy emerald ring
he's gonna cheat......... hes out there looking for a hit, and once he gets a nod hes going!!
2006-09-18 04:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by mercia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he will cheat on you.So leave him just tell him you want to brake up.And you deserve better then that.Tell him to get lost.Well if you don't brake up and if he does cheat on you then you will feel heart broken so leave him and move on.Trust me leave him right now he's no good.!!!!!
2006-09-18 05:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by - Allison 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋