see :
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060913014101AA75M3a
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060911055543AA1KiUI
She did go, she spent week end with him, she did came back to me in one piece :) , he flew back to his place, with a promise that he will return in a year or so.
She is happy, she still loves me, and she still wants to be with me like she has been, since last 18 years.
They did have sex, and I am happy for her, that she enjoyed.
It has not changed a single bit between us.
So cheerup guys and girls, If you have confidence on your self and on her and on top of every thing on your relations, you aint got any thing to worry. And I know few of you will say that, she will change in few months or years. For them, I am here, to report any changes.
2006-09-17 20:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by Zuizz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm happy that you're both happy, however I have to disagree with your assessment of "self confidence". Personally, this has NOTHING to do with my self confidence. It has EVERYTHING to do with my PRINCIPLES and morals. I could not and would not allow my husband to do this and I'm 100% sure he would not want the same for me.
If this arrangement works for u, then so be it but it doesn't work for everyone and in my case, my marriage vows are too important to allow myself to do something like that.
2006-09-17 20:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A part of me feels like you have such a healthy relationship and wish I could be like that but I am just too shallow or childish or posessive with what I feel like I own and refuse to share. Guess it doesn't matter so long as your happy right.
2006-09-17 20:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's completely..... sick
i was going to say wrong but it's more than that.
is there something i'm missing here?
what's the point of being married if you go off for weekends sleeping with other people?
it doesn't matter if it's her old friend or not. you should mention the prospect of whoring to her, then she'd come home from the weekend with something to show for it
for god's sake man
2006-09-17 20:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by tinkbostwick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an incredibly unusual person. How I wish I have a wife who's as confident as you in the marriage! This is total trust.
2006-09-17 21:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie "Indecent proposal". You should have let the guy pay you for letting him have your wife for 2 nights.
2006-09-17 20:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so bad, you need to man up and end this. If you were pleasing her sexually she wouldnt want or need this other man.
2006-09-17 20:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my marriage and my vows i took would not allow me to put up with that she will go again and lets see how easy it will be to put up with it.
2006-09-17 20:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your stupid and your wifes a whore
2006-09-18 00:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ice Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love you.
2006-09-17 20:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray for her...and for you!
2006-09-17 20:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋