I really love her!i told her that i accept her decision that she loves his ex boyfirend,but im afraid to lost her.i accept her past,because i really love her!please help me..
thankz..
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2006-09-17 20:06:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Theater & Acting
let her go. find another girl. if you stay together, both of you won't be happy coz of the past.
2006-09-17 20:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by dewdropinn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's purely up to her whom she loves. You could dump her, but if you love her, why not stay in the relationship till you see all her bad points? Then dump her when you are not in love with her. If you really love her for the long run, I wouldn't focus on her ex at all. Just focus on you and her and cool the romantic/commitment stuff a bit and just be aware of how it is and see if she changes. It may just be taking her some time to get over the dude.
Whatever you do, don't get into some kind of sick relationship with her. Regarding her feelings for her ex, be cool about it or just leave her. Don't be fretting about it all the time. And don't be trying to control her feelings for you or him. That's all a mistake.
Good luck.
2006-09-22 01:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by fergal_lawler_iowa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. Obviously she still carries baggage and you don't deserve to be second just cuz she can't get over her ex. It'll do her some good too. Which ever. Good luck. Speaking from experience I was let go of and eventually found my way. Not with the guy that set me free but I'm over them all and able to start a new life with the man I love most. <33
2006-09-18 23:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she still loves her boy friend how is it he ex now ? . I do agree that you love her but if she still loves her ex boy friend then find out from her if he is still in love with her and if that is the case and she is also still loving him then please leave them alone and find someone else for yourself.
2006-09-18 03:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with both of them at the same time, and see how it really is. You might like her boyfriend better. Good luck!
2006-09-18 03:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by wife of Ali Pasha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on. It's over!
2006-09-22 01:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about her, does she loves you more or her ex-BF, let her decide whom to choose even though the result may break your heart
2006-09-18 03:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by s_fouad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set her free.
2006-09-18 03:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Larynxyn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to be stuck with someone that isn't in love with you, let her go... honestly, it'll eventually just get to a point where you try to be him...
2006-09-18 03:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lint 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
try to avoid her to know about her .if she wants you as her boy friend she will come towards you .if so all ok .if not ignore .
2006-09-18 03:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Bhahagyam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋