my friend of 5.5 years has changed her number, im assuming it was me that made her change her number or at least the reason why she changed her number. any i've been mulling it over and i really need closure in order to move on. just waiting is too painfull and im affraid i might do something *ahem* that i can't regret. its just so painfull help me please. If i could just say one thing to her i would tell her that i care alot and i wish only to be friends for i fear somthing bad has happened. thanks.
2006-09-17 19:40:15 · 5 answers · asked by Sun And Sky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we had "tried" to be more then friends, but i guess that didnt work out.
2006-09-17 19:55:40 · update #1
what happened did you guys used to date try writing a letter sometimes you can say things in a letter that you can,t say in person or over the phone and don't send a return address so she won't know who it is from
2006-09-17 19:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by tygres303 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HHmmmm..... My Dear, let me tell you something.... Having closure is something we can't always have... Sometimes you just have to let it be although you don't want it that way. I'm assuming you two used to date.... Whatever you did... I think you hurted her pretty bad for her to be doing what she's doing.... Also, sometimes you can't always be friends with someone whom you used to be with... It's not that simple. Let it go..... Give her time.... If you keep bugging her she's going to hate you, is that what you want her to do? Once she's cooled down or ready to talk she will.... And when she is, then you tell her.... But keep in mind, learn from your mistakes..... I wish you well.
2006-09-18 07:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Azn-lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I lost a friend's number too and I've been wanting to talk to her. Yes I know it's painful and it will really bother you. Cheers! You're not alone.
2006-09-18 02:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gee, no ego there. ??? How do you know for sure it was you? Closure? Does she have email? I suggest you write her and find out. Don't whine, keep it simple and non-emotional. Just simply state, "hey it's so and so, you changed your number and I was wondering if I could get it. if not, I'd still like to know what's up. here's my email and cell phone. call me. signed, your name"
2006-09-18 02:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its apparent she wants to go on with her life you must go on with yours.
2006-09-18 02:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋