i have my wife go to bars and bring home total strangers so i can watch them have sex with her! i even converted the closet int my secret viewing room! I really love watching her get impaled by other men! Is our relationship healthy?
2006-09-17 19:21:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No and you know that you just want a cheap thrill reading the answers. Are you turned on now! you make me sick!
2006-09-17 19:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dancingsun 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO.
It's immoral and lacks integrity to hide in a closet secretly watching.
Not only are you risking getting nasty germs, but potentially fatal diseases. Not to mention the physical harm you place her in by bringing home someone that could possibly be a murderer.
What about the bad temper of some guy that is mentally unbalanced finding you in the closet and going bezerk?
Those are just the practical issues, I won't even go into the sacredness and santity of marriage and the wedding vows you took.
You both need to seek help before some gets seriously hurt emotionally, physically or worse.
2006-09-18 02:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, Feishes (By Definition) Are The Wierd Sexual Asscociasions
out of the ordinary from the traditional ones.
so It's Hard To Get A Wierd Fettish.
(Yours Is One Of The More Common Ones.)
2006-09-18 02:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Spaghetti MY 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is actually a lot more common than you think,there are hundreds of web sites devoted to the subject, it is known as cuckolding. If you have found a woman who likes it ,consider yourself lucky,Although there are lots of professional cuckoldresses, finding one who actually enjoys the game and not just for money can be incredibly hard to do, women and men think differently about sex.
2006-09-18 02:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is the only way you can orgasm with your wife, then yes, its getting kind of unhealthy. You should be able to be turned on by your wife without having her getting screwed by other men. (I hope she is using condoms) But on the other hand, if you two are having the time of your lives, and you both feel satisfied and happy, then what the heck...go watch your wife screw other guys.
and yeah, I agree, you need to watch out, there are not so many men out there who want to be watched by another dude while getting their freak on. You need to protect your wife, that should be first and foremost important.
2006-09-18 02:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by nellie_3000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not a marriage, no, it is not healthy. your "marriage" will not last. you clearly have unresolved issues that you are trying to bury, or otherwise compensate for. you need to find healthier ways to search for the happiness that has eluded you in recent years. in your case, your divorce (when it happens) will be a deciding point, a fork in the road, where you will begin to make new choices & have an opportunity to seek inner peace, & possibly even happiness, but in a much more constructive way. I wish you well in making the best choices going forward when you reach that fork in the road.
2006-09-18 03:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is short. Do what feels good with you. You and your wife know what makes your marriage work. If you both are having good time and no one is getting hurt.. Enjoy!!
2006-09-18 03:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Well if both of you are fine with it then go ahead and make sure she's having safe sex and don't get any disease.
For your question of course its not healthy!
2006-09-18 02:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by Cathy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have met several guys who are into this...if she is into it as well than by all means it is ok. Just make sure you tell the stranger.
2006-09-18 02:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by pyt_tlc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't respect your wife if that's what you want her to do. If you love and respect her, you wouldn't want other men touching her. Also what about STD's and AIDS. I think what you are doing is selfish and disgusting.
2006-09-18 02:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by Shine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋