I found out that my boyfriend was telling his ex-wife that he was getting rid of me and that he loved and missed her. When I caught him, he said that he only said that because he didn't want her to find anyone else and that he really didn't want her and now he realizes how much he loves me. Can u save this relationship after all the lies?
2006-09-17 19:18:16 · 14 answers · asked by adlb11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry to say this to you but... NO. A man who cheats will always be a cheater. Never fall for that trap. A cheaters nature is to cheat. He will look for chances and chances will look for him. I bet you are young aren't you? This is an important moment for you to understand. Sometimes being sorry doesn't make things right. A person may be truly remorseful, but that doesn't mean that things are OK. You can only move on and wait for a better man and he can only hope to move on and learn from his poor choices. Adultery is truly destructive and evil. It is bad enough when you are technically "single". You need to end relationships like this before they turn into a failed marriage with kids that bind you to a loser for the rest of your life... harsh but true... good luck.
2006-09-17 19:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a cheating relationship and I took him back but I could never really get over the hurt and distrust issue..I found myself blaming myself in the end when it was never me..I left him after about 9 months after it happened, but once the trust is gone i don't think anyone truly gets over it or trusts that person EVER. So just follow your heart and if nothing else be true and loving to your self..
2006-09-18 02:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by sweetthing82371 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl he is trying to play you and her both dont let him do it! you deserve better! If he was over her and really loves you then he would not even be worrying about what she does and who she is with and what she knows. In fact he would want to let everyone know how he feels about you and not hide it from anyone.
He haves Player written all over him! Show him the door and let his ex wife know what he is up 2 then you need to move on and forget about him.
2006-09-18 02:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably not. if you have to live with these thoughts all the time dump him. go find some one else who will love you and be honest .a relation ship is built on trust. when thats gone get out it won't get any better.
2006-09-18 02:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nahh, I Mean You Can...But It Will Be A Difficult Road To Travel.
2006-09-18 02:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by iLL_TeK_NeekZ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there... I felt that I can no longer trust him.. What you've mentioned is that he is trying to step on two boats.. Why have you and yet refuse to let his ex-wife go?? That is very questionable..
2006-09-18 02:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by snowfox3010 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. This relationship is unhealthy, going nowhere and has no trust. Just leave him. He's not worth all the heartache over.
2006-09-18 02:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by DrSH 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nope on him never doing it again HE WILL!Hey go talk to ex wife nicely and you will find out more then you could want to know HONEST
2006-09-18 02:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Dancingsun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, let him hit the road. You can find better then that. What he did is just flat out rude!
2006-09-18 02:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by mag 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's lying to one of you. I wouldn't wait around to see who.
2006-09-18 02:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by matty.. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋