Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago. I broke up with him cause i thought he was cheating. he wasn't. all the signs were there though. now I want him back. what do I do? what will make him want me back.. when he will barely talk to me alone? I have tried anddreesing sexier and he did get jealous. how do I kick that up a notch to make him want me back?
2006-09-17 19:17:01 · 13 answers · asked by Harmony22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only if you feel happier. God Luck.
2006-09-17 19:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by brogdenuk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either have trust in a relationship or your don't and if it's the latter, then I don't think you should be trying to get your ex back into your life. If your sure that you can trust him and not make out that's he's doing the dirty on you, just apologise for being a neurotic ex-girlfriend and ask him to forgive you and ask for another chance with him. If he gives you the chance........don't blow it by running of into fairy land thinking he's stepping out on you again, get the facts before you do something like break up with him.
2006-09-17 19:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he wants you back after you failed to trust him in the first place? If he doesn't want to talk then he is doing you a favor in not making the matter worst. From your action you may suffocate him or you may distrust him again if does something you think he is doing to hurt you. Just sincerely apologize and let him go.
2006-09-17 19:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Danni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be yourself . thats the person he fell in love with , when one partner suspects the other of infidelity the relationship goes to hell regardless if cheating is going on or not , i suspect when you felt he was cheating you acted awfully stupid and did things that wee not something you normally would do ..........you need to get back to the person you were and remember why you loved him and trusted him enough to be married . when you thought he was cheating he saw part of you he really didnt like and probally has a hrd time seeing you as the old person he loved . he needs time and you need to be yourself , if you start dressing sexier and stuff he may just think your trying to land a new man or being premiscious .............give it time and be yourself hunny .................good luck
2006-09-17 19:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him and most likely hurt his feelings and now you are continuing to play with his emotions because your "whim" tells you he is suddenly attractive to you now that he's not yours? I would highly suggest that you learn to stop messing with people's emotions and being a tease because you could end up dead. I'm not saying that to be nasty or rude, but messing with a person's emotions or "trying to make them jealous" can BACKFIRE VERY BADLY. Have some self-respect for yourself and go to him and apologize like a real adult woman and say: I messed up, I'm a jerk, I'm sorry, I want you back and I want to make things right with you.
2006-09-17 19:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Persephone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Directly. Tell him that you're very sorry that you acted that way and it wont' happen again, that you still have strong feelings for him and that you want to give the relationship another shot. But you can't force him so if he doesn't want you back...don't pursue him because you'll only lower your self respect.
2006-09-17 19:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you didn't catch him don't mean that your mind was playing tricks on you just move on it's a reason why he's an ex so take this advice as you may but only fools go backwards.
2006-09-17 19:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by passionate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like women guys don't like being accused of something from the woman that he loves.
Best to let him cool down and don't try too hard at the moment because he's dealing with hurt feelings from being accused
2006-09-17 19:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to get over someone but it needs to be done! It will get easier when you find someone else.. there are too many people in this world for you to have to go crawling back to someone! good luck!
2006-09-17 19:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by Reesie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the signs were there, then dont fool yourself he propably was cheating..... move on...... if he really loved you he wouldnt let you go
2006-09-17 19:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by zzz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋