2006-09-17 18:55:43 · 26 answers · asked by dhav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This new bogus account needs to be removed from the site . . .
2006-09-17 18:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say whether or not you are a minor.
You also didn't say whether she is your BLOOD aunt, or just your aunt because she is married to your uncle. If she is your aunt by blood, this is called INCEST, and is totally disgusting. Any child produced by such a union is likely to have genetic abnormalities, possibly severe. Even if she is only your aunt by marriage, this is still a sordid situation you should never have gotton yourself into.
I have a problem believing your aunt "forces" this sex on you. If she, say, "seduced" you ONCE, maybe - ok, I MIGHT buy it. But you say "forceS", which implies that this sick relationship still continues on. A man, or "man-boy" (whichever the case may be) CANNOT be "forced", i.e, raped, by a woman! This is physically impossible. You have NO real excuse for sticking around long enough to ALLOW her to arouse you into a sexual situation. As soon as you felt any sort of a physical response coming on, you COULD have escaped her advances, somehow. I get the feeling that there HAD to have been at least SOME willingness on YOUR part, otherwise there wouldn't have BEEN a second time - even if you really WERE molested against your will the FIRST time!!!! Unless you are very young, and small, and weak - and SHE is exceptionally large, strong, and intimidating - I just have a hard time believing you are 100% blameless in this sleazy scenario!
If I were you, I would be pushing for an abortion. What a disgrace to the entire family, should she choose to bear this child! If she refuses to go that route, then it looks like you have no choice but to face the music. You will be held morally and financially responsible for this child's well-being, regardless of the circumstances. I wonder if perhaps she PLANNED it that way?!
You also didn't mention whether or not this woman already has kids - kids who would be your COUSINS! This could make things even MORE sticky! YUK!!!
Good luck - and be more careful where you put it, next time!
2006-09-17 21:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really forces you then why not talk to your father or your mother about it and ask them for help in stopping that abuse? If you are a willing participant this is not something to be proud of and if you ask this question because you feel guilty and are trying to figure out a way to get out of your own responsibilities, it is nor nice, but if your aunt uses force to have sex with her you should report her immediately to the authorities. You do not mention your age but if she is pregnant, you should know better and now that is done you should talk to someone qualified to help in that sort of situation.
Please do not procastinate about that. The more you wait the worst the situation will be.
God help you do the right thing for yourself and for this baby.
2006-09-17 19:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young...find an adult/counselor that will listen to you. You may feel like you can't tell anyone but believe me, you need to find an adult to help you and right away. This is a felony in most instances...and even though you don't want this to go on...you must tell someone so that they can help you.
If you are an adult then, shame on you. You have more power over your body than you are showing. If your question is legit, you must stop this from happening right away. Your emotional mindset is what is important and this is a very unhealthy situation. You will need counseling....also. Get help......
2006-09-17 19:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by chatterella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For whatever the reason, you can not blame your aunt because if you don't want to have sex with her it would not happened ! If you want to save her family, do abortion ASAP, and never such situation ever happened again. Please move far away from your aunt if possible. If you like everything getting mess-up, talk to your uncle, but I do not suggest it.
2006-09-17 19:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by sastra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age , you need to contact the authorities , I knew a guy that had the same exact thing going on , it went on untill his late teens early twenties . he was seriously conflicted about what to do and eventually he almost did something really stupid over the emotional pain he was in .........do not be mistaken this is a seirious matter and one that holds long term ramafications if not handled immeditaley.............you have to tell some one , regardless of your age it still aint ok for this to go on .........
2006-09-17 19:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your aunt forces you? Call the police. That is rape. Oh, and love the child. It isn't its fault your aunt is messed up.
2006-09-17 18:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do u mean by aunt.....mothers sis or fathers sis....any ways my friend a lot of people here, are raping women amongst other reasons for the fact that they don't get enough.....and although some cultures might detest the idea, but since you are getting some thing with ease enjoy it.
2006-09-17 18:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u are under 18 you need to tell a teacher or a family member. if u can find the strenght u need to tell the authorities. it is incest and rape and against the law.
wish u would give so more details to help better
2006-09-17 18:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by psychpath64 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get off of Yahoo and call the cops. Now.
2006-09-17 18:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Ford F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋