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A great friend of mine recently (in the past year) has begun drinking and going to clubs and bars and has slept with around 100 men. She was getting her masters degree, but told our teachers she had Mono. She thinks this is normal behavior, although i see that this has become a routine for her which could lead her contracting an STD if she hasnt already, or become raped, if seh hasnt already. I tried talking to her about her behavior and the dangers, and she answers by "im fine" any suggestions on how to help would be greatly appreciated :}

2006-09-17 18:31:01 · 9 answers · asked by NYGIRL 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

9 answers

you can be her friend but if she thinks she doing no wrong,just be there for her when her world starts coming down.

2006-09-17 19:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0 0

Hey miss
This friend of ypurs is in serious trouble.if possible find out why she started doing what she is doing.also check to see if anyone else apart from u is counseling her in these matters.
Maybe she is in some trouble and needs your help.Such people are hard to convince.
This way she will get STD/AIDS
if possible inform her parents anonymously as this might have a repercussion on your friendship
And best of luck

2006-09-18 01:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jitendra 2 · 0 0

explain to your friend that party is easy. Go back to the hard part and get the masters degree. You can party whenever you want. But that's not substitute for food on table.

2006-09-18 01:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Get her to go to a Stoopid HO counseling session and then buy her a dildo/vibrator as a gift. Or something to that effect. Obviously she has issues and she needs to deal with them, with or without some outside help and needs to find an alternative to such dangerous sexual gratification tactics.

2006-09-18 01:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by TimmyDean 2 · 0 0

You cant force her to change, but maybe getting some of her other friends together to try to do one of those "intervention" type sessions would help. Maybe if she realised how much you all cared about her she might see the error of her ways. But on the flipside maybe she enjoys it too much and wouldnt want to stop now.

2006-09-18 01:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by stuntdouble_uk 3 · 0 0

you have already done your part. you tried to help her but she didn't do anything. you said she's taking her master's. i guess she should be old enough to be responsible for her own actions. you have already tried your best to save her, but oh, well, master's student seems not to be worried.

i don't think you can still do something about it. im sorry.

2006-09-18 01:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

OK LET ME TELL UTHIS. SH'E GROWN AND SHE;S NOT DUMB. IM PRETTY SURE THAT SHE KNOWS THAT THATS NOT GOOD AND U NEED TO LET HER GO BECAUSE HANGING WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT MAKES THE PEOPLE THAT SHE AROUNGD WITH U THINK UR EASY LIKE HER AND U NEVER WANT TO BE LABLED AS A H@$ BECAUSE OF HER ACTIONS. THINK ABOUT IT. TELL HER AS A FRIEAND THAT THATS NOT CUTE OR KOOL AND IF SHE IS WILDING OUT LIKE THAT TELL HER TO BE HONEST WITH U CUZ UR HER GURL AND SHE NEED TO CALM DOWN AND BE WITH ONE PERSON .

2006-09-18 01:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by EBONY S 1 · 0 0

U try talking with her seriously, when shez in serious mood.
Also talk with her elders, parents.
They will definitely appreciate if u take their help.
Tell them, and they will handle her.

Good Luck.

2006-09-18 01:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by ashlesha19 3 · 0 0

Please pray for her, she needs your prayers. May God bless you with what you need best!

2006-09-18 02:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0 0

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