I am married with children but cant help looking at this attractive man who keeps making eye contact with me through a missing gap in the fence,i get butterflies when i see him and he smiles and stares 4 ages.is it just a fantasy i tell myself? we both have big back gardens but if we both know we r out in the garden,we go straight to the hole in the fence....I like him but i just dont know wht to do bout it.any advice??? thanks
2006-09-17 17:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by samantha m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Temptation comes before us all. But, as a married woman, you really should know better than to even think about such temptations. Think of your husband and children too. Block that gap... NOW! You will feel better and stronger if you do, and this act of self- mastery will transform you in many wonderful ways. A friend of mine gave into this type of temptation and ruined her life. So be warned and be strong, girl! I am rooting for you. Love.
2006-09-17 17:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Shrimati 420 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, get a grip hinny! You have no idea what he is like as a person, he could be a complete idiot with disgusting bad habits that would make the hair on the back of your neck stand on end and irritate the sh*t out of you. Are you happy in your marriage? Do you want to risk it? and with someone so close to home? There is no future in this so let it just be a fantasy and stop going to the hole in the fence. If you ask me, he's a little creepy...good looking or not, this would give me the eeby-jeebies if someone sat and stared at me through a hole in the fence and didn't say anything. My advice, leave it well alone!
2006-09-17 22:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by mother knowledge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have husky, its just doing what huskies do. They were bred to run or be chained to a frozen stake in the snow. Keeping one in a back yard is sometimes difficult. They can dig to china, chew down a red wood forest and do not come back when called. You either need a out door kennel run that is covered and has a cement floor or you need to run shock wire around the fence where the dog doe the most damage. Or go get a different dog. Plastic chicken wire is of no good, you need hog wire at least. or a chain link fence. A tall chain fence. Cause they climb like cats.
2016-03-27 06:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its innocent as long as you just toy with the idea. Some times its nice to know someone finds you attractive and abit of flirting is harmless as long as thats how it stays. If you think its becoming a problem then maybe you should stay away from the fence for a while.
2006-09-17 17:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are getting butterflies when you see another guy, doesnt sound llike your marriage is too sound. Fill up the gap quick or there could be trouble on the horizon!
2006-09-17 21:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Annie M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be married and like someone else. I am guessing that you dont know much about this guy, and like him because of his looks. But think again. If you are married, you know this guy very well, you have kids, and most of all you married him for a reason. LOVE!!!!!! I dont know what to tell you other than that. Just dont waste something good, for something unknown!!!!!!!
2006-09-17 17:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by TayNuz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl whats more in portend a fling or your marriage and the welfare of your children.Think girl before you act So take a cold shower and have a cup of tea.then think do i have the fling then get dumped by him or stay with my family who loves cares for me.now you are the only one that can answer that question?
2006-09-18 00:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cover the hole girl, you are married and if you love your hubby you wont go down to the fence anymore!
2006-09-17 22:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its alright if you look, but i wouldnt touch if i were you, especially since you're married, just stick with smiling and staring. for the kids sake.
2006-09-17 22:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by $@Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one option is: board the fence up and forget about it like any sensible person would.
but since i have no idea about your personality....
the other option is: talk to him over the fence
2006-09-18 08:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋