other bad stuff! she also told him that his parents hate him and me!I no my husband is hurt, but this is not the first time she does things like this. also she has 2 young childern her parents love to death, we lost a child 6 years ago i can no longer have childern, but i have 2 from my ex. we have been toghter over 8 years, he is very hurt by this whole thing, is it possible they hate me because i cant have his child?
2006-09-17 17:16:12 · 5 answers · asked by trish p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One as long as you and your husband are happy then don't worry about what the others think. If they see you upset over something they have said then they know they have one. Next time she mouths of nasty comments just look her in the face and say what a shame to bad family has to feel that way. I doubt not having a child isn't what is behind it instead petty jealousies or insecurities of where they fit into his life. When my husband and I got married his family told him to stay away well he didn't argue or plead he stayed away, after a few weeks his parents were calling and their entire attitude changed. Stick up for you and your family they are al adults and if they can't act like it then you don't need them anyway.
2006-09-17 17:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, you're extremely no longer on my own in this. there is an entire technology of husband who can no longer face up to their mothers/family because of the fact they have been raised to no longer reason any waves. i understand you have indicated which you have have been given talked on your husband; in spite of if, that's substantial that this subject count comes up in an fairly dramatic way. even although he's not inflicting those atrocious behaviors, he extremely ought to strengthen some experience and a few backbone while he sees how his relatives treats the female he loves. And in simple terms so which you know, your emotions approximately your husband is somewhat justified. while he married you---he promised to love you, guard you, and be there for you while situations are undesirable(or stable!). you're dealing with undesirable situations each time his mom and sister purposely make you experience unwelcome and unworthy. Your emotions are closer to frustration---no longer hate. This ultimatum talk will extremely must be set in a approach that your husband realizes which you propose enterprise. the two one among you ought to strategies-set the mummy and sister mutually as a UNITED team. it may't be in user-friendly terms you speaking to them and he's in simple terms status there nodding or finding away. indignant words will unfold yet you ought to enable them to understand which you do no longer want to proceed struggling with or hating them---you in user-friendly terms want a non violent relatives existence. If this would not strengthen, i'm sorry to assert that some anybody is in simple terms hateful and that i will assure that they wont' strengthen with age.
2016-10-15 02:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad to hear. To get along with your in laws is one of the sweetest things but what can you do, you cannot please everybody.
Don't be too hard on yourself as long as you got your husband. I know, it's easier said than done but not having a child anymore with him is not something that you like to happen.
Be strong and understanding and I hope things will fall to its places sooner.
2006-09-17 17:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are going to know this woman the rest of ur life, I suggest you find a way to get on her good side. Do something nice for her, get her a gift, something to show her that even though shes being a total b*tch, you wont be. As difficult as it might be to do this, it will work and it will be more than worth it!
2006-09-17 17:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds pretty deep. You should have him find out what the real story is. Maybe she used to be real close to him and you got in the way?
2006-09-17 17:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋