I'm a freshman in college and there's this girl in highschool who I'm still in love with, even though I have not seen her since the end of last school year. When I met her, she was rather crazy, but in non psychotic, non sexual way. She was just really beautiful and really funny too and I liked her a lot. She was the kind of girl that if you mentioned anything she thought was perverted, she would get embarrassed and she was a Catholic and I'm pretty sure she still is. If you questioned or insulted her faith, she would get upset. She was into religion.She was basically a tease, basically a good girl. I never went out with her but we were good friends. I just pictured her as perfect. Now I've found out that she's turned into a total slut and it upsets me. All those things she never would do with me or anyone else, now she's doing.She's a total hypocrite and I feel somewhat angry and resentful now. It's ruined my perception of her as an angel. I feel like I got cheated. I cant get over it
2006-09-17 17:12:30 · 9 answers · asked by conundrum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Should I try to contact her? She's still in high school
2006-09-17 17:51:38 · update #1
Once again, the "You have no life" monster has stricken. This time in the form of Coleen O. This rare breed of the "You have no life" monster likes to lurk around mainly in chat rooms and forums, waiting for its prey. When they see the chance, they pounce, telling people that they have no life, in a pitiful attempt to raise their own self esteem, proving just how rich and happy their own lives are. Crikey!
2006-09-18 18:13:13 · update #2
repent sinner! be a nun! that is what god wants!!! HAHA
2006-09-19 13:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you started this by saying that you sre still in love with this girl but that isn`t true. You never really loved her, only this vision of the perfect little good girl that you had of her.You had this certain perception of her that was ideal to you and now that you find out she`s actually just a mere human being it has shattered the dream and forced you to realize that people are people. You can`t judge people by the choices or mistakes they make. And NOBODY is perfect! You call her a tease but how is that? If she was so goody goody, how is she a tease. You have to flirt or do something to make a person think you want them to be a tease. And if she did those things, she wasn`t some little angel girl to begin with. People change and make mistakes and do things that you think are wrong, but that`s because we are all only human! I think this more about the fact that your pride is hurt that she didn`t choose you to be the one she did those things with. If it WAS you would you feel the same about her that you do now? Would you think she had ruined your perception of her being an angel? I doubt you would. And that would make you the hypocrite, not her.
2006-09-18 00:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ex-Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Good" girls usually act out once they get away from family and high school friends, especially when perceived as perfect. Its time for her to try new things and new versions of herself until she figures out who she really wants to be. Its all a part of growing up. Deep down she is still the same person, but when she comes out of the other side of this wild streak she'll be a better and more mature version of herself. Be there if she needs to talk and cut her some slack.
2006-09-18 00:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by helpfulhannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a hypocrite. Just because she chose not to do some of the things she's doing now with you doesn't make her a hypocrite. It makes her "choosy" She has the right to decide who she gives her sexual favors to and when since it is HER body, not YOURs. Grow up, get a life. You've obviously have had none for quite some time.
2006-09-18 00:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look no offense but what bothers you more, that she did all these things or that she didn't do them with you?also whose fault is it that you made her out to be an angel? so often we put other people on a pedestal because we think their perfect when all they are is different. you said you feel cheated but yet you never dated her. it sounds to me like your just plain jealous. i think your problem is you. you never committed to this girl but suddenly she owes you oh so much. get over it move on live and learn. Next time ask the girl out or don't worry what she's doing or who she is doing it with.
2006-09-18 00:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by peachy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her about it, maybe something went wrong in her life, if she knows she has a friend to talk to maybe she'll stop doing what she's doing
2006-09-18 00:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by skater2930 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want u can mail so we will talk about it.Ok??
2006-09-18 00:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by miss_rimi1989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look,.......she is not ur servant...she has her own life...and she be as u think....in ur dreams.....so forget her search for another angel!!!!
2006-09-18 00:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by preetam hegde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry bro welcome to reality.... you learn alot in college take the good with bad... this is growing up...
2006-09-18 00:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by tylermyhre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋