People prejudge you.
2006-09-17 16:32:02 · 18 answers · asked by Lucy Lu 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Being attractive, it means to attract more people, there is more responsibility to handle it.
2006-09-17 16:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by a flower 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Aw poor you.
Consider also that ugly people have problems too. People also prejudge them, and not in a good way.
As far as being a hot girl goes, the biggest problem I see is that many such girls become spoiled. They get away with so much and people pander to them a lot. This may on the surface seem like a good thing, but many of these girls end up little more than vacuous whores with nothing to offer but their bodies. Which is all well and good until they reach their late 30s and lose those looks. They basically have to snag a rich husband quick or in a blink of an eye they are no longer hot, and because they are so used to having everything handed to them on a plate, they don't know how to fend for themselves. It's certainly a pretty sad life to lead to live for finding a man to look after you.
Thankfully there are many good looking girls out there that strive to improve themselves and not simply rely on their good looks. But for every one of these there are probably 10 others just looking to become a trophy wife to a rich man. That's just sad.
2006-09-17 23:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by ZCT 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I will be 44 years old in Ocotber, and I know exactly what it means to be the "hot girl" long before the term existed. Those of you who decide that being attractive is a problem should be forced to exist in an "ugly suit" for at least three days, and experience what you're life might be if you weren't so "pretty". Too bad society allows you pretty girls to get away with the **** you do. I had the luxury of being raised by parents who never allowed me to rest on my laurels in any way shape or form.
2006-09-17 23:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by LYNN MARIE 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why should being attractive "not" be trouble? My wife at 47 still has the horns beeping and she loves it! I think some might be sensing that you have your defenses up and misconstrue it for being stuck up or whatever. Try a change in apparel that blends in with wherever you are heading as an idea!
2006-09-18 20:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by The Global Community 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hate when pretty people complain about being pretty...its ridiculous. life woudl be ALOT harder if they were ugly!!!
its liek eva longoria saying "id otn get a lot of good parts because im too pretty!" Oh poor you.actually, everyone in hollywood(most)are pretty attractive so don't think you're better than anyone . also, do you think she would even BE on a hit TV show and a well known actress if she was large and ugly??? ask yourself that.she should be GRAETDFUL that she's beautiful because it made it easier for her to live her dreams.
i have lots of guy friends. some of them want me, im sure all think im attractive , but mature guys can be friends with girls not just for sexual reasons. people pre judge anyone....for anything. so just be happy you have the looks and you dont have to deal with bad self esteem issues, because im sure that would be much worse.
2006-09-18 00:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by 47skittles 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Whether you like it or not the world is influenced by the beauty of an individual. Scientists have done research with all age individuals including babies. Beauty is determined by the symmetry of the face. Balance seems to be the key to beauty. Equal distances of all features, and other factors determine beauty. Either you have it or you don't. Well, I guess unless you can buy plastic surgery and that might not be worth the price.
2006-09-17 23:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by ruthie 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe don't work so hard then. I prefer the natural look anyway. If it takes so much effort to look 'attractive' that you can't enjoy life, then stop it. Cut a few corners and decide to be happy with the way you look. Your personality and confidence are more important for your self image and are more likely to land you more meaningful relationships.
2006-09-17 23:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think it depends on how you carry yourself and how you dress as well. I mean girls are always going to be mean to the really pretty girl no matter what they wear. But if you come across at all cocky your damned.
2006-09-17 23:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
definately. i cant stand when guys whistle at me or wink or try to hit on me!! i will really tell them to back the heck off and flip them off or something. i was 6 months pregnant and still had some guys in the car next to me trying to get my number, even AFTER i pointed to my belly!!
2006-09-17 23:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by bridgetsmomma621 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Wah, cry me a river. Consider yourself lucky and deal with it.
2006-09-17 23:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋