2006-09-17 16:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by meanblacktiger 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If so then what do you do?
2006-09-17 16:14:33 · update #1
Yes, it happens when you are not looking and are not expecting it at all. I don't know what to do about it...if you figure it out let me know. You love the person you married, they are wonderful, but you just can't help but love the other person.
2006-09-17 16:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry someone who is not your true love?
No, try to make your marriage work and make your partner your true love. If this is impossible, then get a divorce. But think about this "so called" true love and his attributes. He is messing with a married woman. Is that the type of person who you really would love? Do you think that he would not cheat on you or that you will not turn around and find a new "true love" to replace him? People are treating love and marriage too lightly and just getting married and not really putting effort into it or marrying someone they don't really love, then having problems and going out finding other people.
2006-09-18 01:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes. I have to tell you that I was in the same situation, and now that I am out, I have to tell you that it feels good, but there are some work that need to be done.
See you must really try to disect what is "true" for you. What exactly does it mean that you must look into your relationship right now? did you give all 100% or did you simply got together and that was that. See I do believe that we all have a true love and only when God feels that you are ready will he send them to you. there is a reason why you had to have so many other experiences in your life but i also believe that when you were growing up and dreaming about your true love and all, you knew exactly what you were looking for and what you needed. now that life has taken it's time and turn around you, it can stop but only when it is your time and you want to.
I do not believe in staying in something that you do not want specially if you have kids because they will feell it and know it so watch out sincef they will mimike you no matter what...so get out if it is what you want because nothing will change. now if you made your decision to stick with it and to "hell with the true love" well stop asking and thinking about it and fix what you have now...
2006-09-17 23:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by mysterious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true lust yes, but not true love, u can be infactuated with someone but unless ur in a relationship with them on a daily bases.. u dont really know if its ur "true love" more like a crush then anything.. but either way ur married time to grow up and start living up to the promises u made and not acting like a little boy trapped in a mans body..
2006-09-17 23:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible...and I also think that maybe we have more than one true love...so you either commit to your marriage or you end it for another and it'll look bad but it's your choice. Mind you next year you might think you found your soul mate and be in the same situation again?
Me I think if your married you shouldn't be looking to find just my opinion.
2006-09-17 23:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes... if your wife isn't your true love already... if this happens you may want to talk to her and tell the truth. It's not fair for her to be living like that, thinking you're in love with her when you're not.
2006-09-17 23:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. If you really mean "true love", then that means being "true" to whomever you have vowed to love. There is no soulmate stuff. Marriage takes work and no one is perfect all the time. Stop looking over the fence thinking their grass is greener, and mow your own.
2006-09-17 23:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by joelgehringer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You find your imagination's "true love", but it is not true love if you are married. Dirty dishes piled to the sky brought me to my senses and broke the illusion.
2006-09-17 23:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should have married your true love. Don't people get married for true love now days or is it all just lust?
2006-09-17 23:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by A soldiers wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-09-17 23:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋