I want guys to notice me without having to wear skimpy clothes or acting really fake? I am 14 years old I have brown hair medium skin and wear size 2 jeans. Just to clear it up I AM A GIRL! Suggestions PLEASE
2006-09-17 15:30:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i know how you feel, i felt that guys only notice girls who wore short skirts and stuff like that. but i promised myself that i would never go down that part and change myself so that guys would notice me....in the end i didnt even get my first bf till i was 16 but wen i look back at it now, i still dont regret changing myself to reach guys approval. so just remember there is a guy out there for you, just give it time and someone will come into your life!
2006-09-17 16:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. No need to be fake to try and impress someone, and leave the skimpy clothes alone. You don't want to create the wrong impression. You're only 14, before long, boys will notice you without you doing much to attract them. My mother used to tell me, the bees go to the flower, not the flower to the bees.
2006-09-17 23:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by brendalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and remember that most guys this age are a lot more immature than you (it's a scientific fact.) The right guy will respect you for being, smart, funny, and naturally pretty. It just may take a while. In the meantime, be a good student and don't let not having a boyfriend get you down. It's not the whole world, really, it isn't.
2006-09-17 22:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys your age are shy & awkward. They probably do notice you, but don't know how to approach you. Just smile & be outgoing to them. They will get comfortable around you.
Guys have the same problem too. Just look around on here & see how many guys are posting questions about how to approach a girl, how to tell a girl he likes her.....
Just give it time.
2006-09-17 22:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and act like you normally would. The majority of guys really aren't attracted to the skimy, fake girls. Just be your normal, intelligent, confident self and you'll be fine.
2006-09-17 22:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Esma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too young to date or worry about boys. You need to concentrate on your school work. A good guy will like you for you not for your body. Now finish your homework.
2006-09-18 00:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try acting sexy coz guys can make out if you are doing that. Just be normal and friendly. Always SMILE.
Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-18 07:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by switch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk... guys seem to notice me and Im nothing special... I think that its because I smile at EVERYONE... wether I know them or not, male, female, old, young, It makes me happy and I think guys notice that happiness... Im not bad looking either(and from how it sounds, you arent either) so that helps a bit... i dont even wear makeup... I think that if a guy feels comfortable and happy around you, then he will be attracted to you.
2006-09-17 23:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this: what kind of guys do I want to notice me? If you are kind, and gentle, and sweet, and intelligent, the nice sweet guys will do plenty of noticing.
2006-09-17 22:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by toomanycommercials 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, your young you'll have plenty of time for guys to notice you. You should worry more about your schoolwork than whether or not a guy is noticing you.
2006-09-17 22:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by melashell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋