I don't understand...why do i get so upset when people don't do the things that they say that they will do or are late for appointments? I get all worked up and really angry at them but don't show it at that very moment but make a mental note to reduce contact with them? I hate myself for doing that but i can't seem to get over stuff like that? How do u learn to give people a second chance? It seems like a trivial matter but it's driving me nuts and making me miserable!
2006-09-17 15:22:52 · 5 answers · asked by Joyce 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-09-17 15:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are just not punctual. Some people just have no idea of time. I have been thru this many times. I find it best to realize who these people are and expect them to act this way. If you expect the minimal from them then they can not upset you, Plus if they do keep their word it is a pleasent supprise.
2006-09-17 15:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by pokerking_pokergod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have same Issue to those people who are not making commitment with anything their doing makes me sick. So I just stand up and start lecturing them but it is not a good thing to do. But sometimes I got a feed back . They say thank you and it wasn't cool but I can take it. I support you but sometimes take it easy and tell them the truth they need to hear they weakness, most of people love to hear what are they doing.
2006-09-17 15:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by tangind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For being late? A second chance? You need to get over yourself. You get angry at imperfection in others, but I'm betting you don't even see it in yourself!!!
2006-09-17 15:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by wildraft1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because you are tired of people lieing to you
2006-09-17 15:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by free_city_stl@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋