My bestfriend boyfriend says that he is attracted to me he even tried to hit on me. What should I do? I just can get him away from him! And how is she going to take this? Will she believe me? Should I tell her? What should I do with him? Somebody help me Asap! Please!
2006-09-17 15:22:16 · 9 answers · asked by **BeautiFul** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when this happens you say the first time you know she is my best friend and I know your just kiddin and laugh .If he does it again hes a dog and you need to tell you friend.
2006-09-17 15:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like u may like that he likes u.
But u have to realze that he is HER bf and if u allow something to happen u will lose ur friend( os this guy worth u losing a friend) since he made a pass at u u need to tell her( what u should have done was confront him when it first happen)
But what u may have to do is wonder if he's telling her that u like him, sometimes guys try to play friends against each other and they friends end up mad at each other.
U need to tel her that he made a pass at u I just hope she believes u and that he will not come between u and her( it's really not worth it to lose a friend over a guy, because it's a big world and many guys will come and go but good friends stay put with each other)
2006-09-17 15:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your bestfriend so she should know how you feel about her boyfriend making passes at you. If she chooses not to believe you(how long have you been friends) than there is nothing else for you to do but decide is it worth the trouble of staying her friend. Record him hitting on you and play the tape for her. So even if he tries to deny it, you have proof. Other than that, say nothing to him, he is only there to cause havoc
2006-09-17 15:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen to me. I told my friend and she confronted him and he said "no". Well, he told me that she would never believe me. So the next time I was around the both of them ,the dumb -ss, hit on me again! In a load voice I told him that I was not going to go out with him. My friend came in the room.He told her I was teasing. I said No,I'm not! And left. She knew That I was speaking the truth and called me up the next day to say so.
2006-09-17 15:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong if a person is attracted to you..come on were human. But in the best interest of yourself, let your bestfriends guy know that your not interested...or are you?? let me tell you ...hos before bros.
2006-09-17 15:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Amber K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her-she needs to know what kind of boyfriend he really is to hit on her best friend! Wouldn't you want to know if you were her? Hopefully she is smart enough to get rid of him and quick!
Youa re risking her being upset with you,maybe even accuse you of going after him...if she does not believe you-how good a friend is she. Sometimes these situations shows us the truth about ourselves and others-learn from them and move on. marlyne B
2006-09-17 15:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by marlynembrindle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN, RUN...FAR AWAY!!
I've been down this road before as both the best friend & as you. Neither are nice... PLEASE tell your friend as well because he should not be attempting to get at both of you because that's just plain wrong....
Now, she may listen or she may think you're lying but let her decide what to do w/ that information.Either way she's been informed & can't say that you didn't tell her. Good Luck!
2006-09-17 15:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to leave you alone then stay away from him and her if necessary. She will ask you why, then you can tell her. If you tell her now, she will just get mad at you. If she does not ask, she was not your friend any way.
2006-09-17 15:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make it clear that you DON*t want him.....and threaten to tell your friend if he continues!
2006-09-17 15:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anna =] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋