i am so lonely and i sincerely hope i can have a caring faithful girl to spend my life with . can anyone tell me where can i find my true love and nice girl ? I am coming to 34 this year really hope can have some one to be with .
2006-09-17 15:06:51 · 7 answers · asked by low_thomas2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you know i felt similar a long time ago, id like someone to share my life with and so what i did was i did something about it.
this is what i learned...
you actually dont need anyone to make you happy
to be truely happy with someone, you first must find happiness in yourself. for when you are happy with who you are, your whole outlook changes and so do you.
i learned that i wanted improvement in all areas of my life and also by doing this, its affects helps me in other areas, friends, familys and RELATIONSHIPS....its all linked
for me to be happy --- i had t learn to be happy with myself --- i made changes in my life to make this happen ---- saw improvements over time --- now i am happy.
what im trying to tell you is i did something about that, i knew just knowing what i needed wansnt enough, i had to do it.
maybe write down what you want and then write steps down to make it happen, you can look up the net and search for sites about happiness, improving your life and all that, they help too.
this is a start.
hope any of this helps - dave
2006-09-17 15:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are loads of girls around if you participate in the right social activities. Go engage in a hobby and just be yourself. You'll meet people of similar interests when you embark on a new hobby. Have you ever tried joining SDU or SDS? There are lots of single people to mingle with. Or you could try MySpace.com or Match.com to know more people. Sometimes you won't meet your ideal girlfriend instantly. It takes introduction from a friend or a colleague.
2006-09-18 06:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someday you'll find someone, just don't rush things. Wait. No one can really help you find a girl unless your into the whole internet dating stuff with all them sites or those TV shows. In that case why not take a crazy chance and go on a TV show to help you.
2006-09-17 22:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Aly! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've to work at it and finding what you want. friends are a good source and it depends entirely on you from there.
loneliness is such a torture and companionship is needed. if you let your mind take advantage then you're gonna lose.
am in my mid life and countless failed relationships. but kinda think of it being alone is not that bad and not good too...lol. it all depends on oneself too. it needs both to make things right.
dont give up for you're still too young and life has lots to offer. look at yourself and change or correct for the better? keep a postive outlook and look on the bright side.
2006-09-17 23:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's start a club. I am alone now and 31 and it sucks but i just try to be positive and look for new people to meet everywhere I go. I need friends as well as a man.
2006-09-17 22:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join some dating websites. there are a million of them out there.... eharmony, yahoosingles, match.com, tons of them.... just do a search & you'll find something to join. be positive.
2006-09-17 22:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by M W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing has worked for you at least you can have a new friend:ME!!!!! look for me at thehighveld@yahoo.com
2006-09-17 22:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Nikie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋