i met this guy who in 1 year he became my friend then when we were in a group of friends i noticed that all his attention was for me, I know he liked me and i fell in love but at that time i had a boyfriend and he couldn't tell me anything.One day, my boyfriend found out that he loved me and they got into a fight so he decided not to talk to me- Then he had to go to another country to college- that day, he told me that he'll never forget me and that he wasn't angry with me and that he'll allways do what's best for me; i e-mailed him for one full year and had 0 answers from him.Meanwhile i broke up and one day he answered, he told me that he tought it was the best thing if he gave my boyfriend and me time and that he was sorry if he wasn't right. It's been three months since we are e-mailing again every month but i'd like to know if he really loves me.
I MISS HIM.-.-. How can i know if he loves me or what's goinon?
2006-09-17 15:05:17 · 20 answers · asked by Nikie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I didn't mention that my boyfriend was abusive to me and He found out he tried to speak to my boyfriend about the situation, so thats why they got into a fight-
2006-09-18 03:01:06 · update #1
we've been e-mailing for 3 months now & everytime i write he answers within 1 month, but the other day a friend of mine send him an email telling him that i was getting married just to see his reaction and wht happened is that he wrote back the very same day to me telling me that his mom wants him to get married soon and that he's trying to find a girlfriend but that he's triyng to do it more chilled out and that he hasn't found th right person yet, and then he asks me '' your friend told me that you are getting married and tou didn't tell me anything? What can you tell me about that?
Guys what does that mean do you think he loves me?
2006-09-18 03:19:44 · update #2
i will dig a hole.
2006-09-17 15:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by awf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he really did care for you and when your ex boyfriend and him got in a fight, that made him realize that there could never be anything between you and him. He seems really hurt over it all. Maybe he haves moved on with his life, you didn't say if he is currently in a relationship his self or what. However you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel and see what he says. Good Luck!
2006-09-17 22:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak much louder than words . There has got to be some way for you two to get together and see what is or isn't there between you . Ask him to make an attempt to do this , if he can't or won't than he is not good enough for you . Forget him and get on with your life . At that point I say you have put enough effort into him .
2006-09-17 22:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is trying to see if this is really the right thing. he may also have a girlfriend or is involved with someone else. if he truly loves you it will show in time. i know patience is hard for the heart to comprehend but it is a must in this type of situation. he may also feel hurt that you didn't choose him over your ex. there is a lot of things to consider. if you really want to go for it try and see at least you will know for sure---good luck.
2006-09-17 22:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by smiliegalccd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know the WHOLE situation but I dont see how he could possibly LOVE you if you never dated or ANYTHING, but that doesnt mean he doesnt REALLY LIKE you and want to be with you, just ask him! Straight up! If you dont ask and you truely like this guy you will always wonder what might have been!
2006-09-17 22:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by airforce_wife09102002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just going to have to come out and ask him in one of your e-mails. I can't tell you what he is thinking b/c I don't know him. But ask. Your life will go on no matter what he says. So take a deep breath and go for it.
2006-09-17 22:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Charis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email him again. Tell him straight up how you feel. He may feel the same. He's the only one that can tell you if he loves you. No one here can do that for you. Good Luck. And let us know how it goes,please.
2006-09-17 22:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you should just talk to the boy! Ask him how he feels bout you and than go from there. If he loves you, he'll tell you.
2006-09-17 22:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Aly! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are messed up ..playing around with 2 guys at the same time and playing with their heads.
You deserve everything you get .
2006-09-17 22:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just email him asking him do he love u...
step
2006-09-17 22:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to supervise them digging the hole.
2006-09-17 22:09:07 · answer #11 · answered by Little_Lilth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋