she likes sum guy an i told her he was cute. but after i told her that she got offensive an told me to stay away 4rm him an i dont kno him i jus have class with him. so she got in a big argument with me bc she thinks that imma take him away 4rm her an now shes not speaking to me. i tried to explain to her that i dont like him like that...but she wont listen. wat do i do?? an im not the fighting type either.
2006-09-17 14:59:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she also brought up sumthin that happend last year, i jus moved last year an the 1st week of skool she was my friend an sum guy liked her but as soon as i came to that skool he stopped talking to her an tried to go out with me....and i didnt find out til the whole mess was over which was like last summer. an i cant believe she's fight over sumthin that stupid. we live right down the street 4rm each other and ride the goddamn bus togerther so theres no way she can avoid me...
2006-09-17 15:08:10 · update #1
shes friends with him..an yea she told me that if i tried to talk to him that she s gonna tell him ima hoe or sumthin which im not.
2006-09-17 15:19:58 · update #2
She's being very insecure, because I'm guessing Ur either a very pretty girl or Ur a fun person everyone likes.
And if u and he become friends it may likely that he will like u in a girlfriend way. This happens a lot with females ( u will knew this as u get older) Women can feel threaten by another female if the other female is pretty, have a nice body or she has the kind of personaity that others find fun to be around.
Guys are the same, but it's more a serious case when it comes to females. Ur friend likes this guy and I bet he doesn't know it( right) and since u have a class with him she will know that u 2 r gonna end up talking to each other and thats gonna bug her, u said u tried to explain to her that u don't like him like that( there is a outside chance it could happen) but she needs to realize that if he don't know that she likes him then he will not be his fault or yours if he ends up liking u in a girlfriend way, because if he just happens to start to like u it's just meant to be that way and if he meets her br or after it's still not set in stone that he will like her anyway.
It's not fair that she should get mad at u over a guy and if she refuse to listen to u then she's being silly.
Does this guy know she's alive and how does he feel about her?
Try talking to her one more time and if she stilla cts the same then u should stay away from her until she see how silly she's being and she comes to u and say she's sorry
2006-09-17 15:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail, call, text her to death...you guys are best friends and you shouldn't even begin to break that friendship off because of some guy! Keep up with the contact and eventually she'll give in cause it'll get to her after a while not being able to talk to you and having her best friend with her. And if she talks about him or whatever just nodd, giggle, but avoid talking about guys in general until she gets over her posessive thing with this guy. Good luck and I hope the two of you start talking again!
2006-09-17 22:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is the same way. She likes a guy and i said hewas ok lookin and she was all bac off he is mine. Juss go up to your friend explain to her that you don't him. That you were just agreing with her. See if that works.
2006-09-17 22:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mariah Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should wait until she comes up to you becasuse if you try talking it might make things wrose.i know how you feel i just had the same fight with my friend. but this time we are no longer friends. you need to tell her to stop bring up the past.
2006-09-17 22:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by betyloveschips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabye she thinks ur going to steal him from her...ur friend can have a realli low self confidence or probably thinks u are prettier than her and shes afraid no one will like her...have you ever dated a guy she liked before?
2006-09-17 22:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to cut back on caffeine and sugar so she can calm down!
2006-09-17 22:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by zavarob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to grow up and ignore her, who needs someone who causes drama all the time.
2006-09-17 22:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real feiends forgive
2006-09-17 23:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by john s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋