How ever month can you deal with - results I have been off the pill since June and nothing . Right now I am not sure I can take it Everyone I know is pregnant or have jsut had one. I want to escape ! I have no one to relate to. Why me ?
2006-09-17 14:42:47 · 7 answers · asked by iamblessed 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I know exactly how you feel! My husband and I have been trying to conceive a baby for almost 2 years and it is heartbreaking to see that negative result on the home pregnancy test each and every month. You feel sad when you see people around you pregnant, but guilty at the same time because you know you should be happy for them. We are now getting fertility testing and help, but I wonder if I will ever be pregnant. The good news is that you have only been off the pill for 3 months, so it could just take a little longer for you. I will pray for you as I do myself every night. If you ever need a friend to talk to, please feel free to either email me or im. Lots of hugs and baby dust to you!!!
2006-09-17 15:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully your husband is as eager to have kids as you seem to be.
First, if the only reason you want kids is to 'be like everyone else' then for the love of God, don't have kids. Are you financially set? Are you in a loving and commited relationship? Are you able to provide for the emotional and physical health and well-being of a child? Do you even *like* children?
If you answered no to any of these questions, you shouldn't be having kids right now, reguardless of whether or not everyone else is popping them out.
If, however, you are ready for a child and you're having trouble conceiving, be patient. It may take up to a year or intentionally trying before you can get pregnant, even if you never had been on the pill. All women's bodies work differently and yours may be on a different schedule than everyone elses. Relax, stop worrying about it, and enjoy the 'trying' process,
2006-09-17 15:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by fjonesstarr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TTC is like that. You feel alone and hopeless. Even the ones of us who do have kids or are pregnant can empathize. On March 3rd I felt sure my period was going to start. I felt crampy and tired and grumpy, just like usual for the day period was going to start. But I was wrong, that was the day I found out I was pregnant. Both of my children have been that way, I had given up hope for the month and then miracles happened. Please don't give up and just look forward to when it does finally work for you, it will. It is possible your body is still getting the pill out of it's system.
2006-09-17 15:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women who are trying or have tried so hard know what you mean. My hubby and I have been trying for over 9 months now, I get too many false alarms that bring my hopes up high and then frustrate me when my period comes. I was thinking the other day that it's becoming an obsession, but I am so sure it will happen one day, so just don't lose hope.
2006-09-17 18:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by rinah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk about two very long weeks.........waiting to find out!!
its heartbreakingly devastating.
i think i am now at the point where i am imaginging symptons........sore breast, mild cramping........
i lay awake at night thinking.........do i feel ill or am i juat imagining it.
i have a whole other week to wait yet.......but i know what the result will be. hey ho.........one day i guess.
Good luck to you by the way..... xx
2006-09-17 22:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been ttc for 3 years. you have to give yourself some time. then, if you are still having trouble, then ask why me and go in for testing.
2006-09-17 15:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by brandy1905 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IN TIME YOU WILL GET YOUR HONEY.
2006-09-17 15:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by MIMI 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋