I have been broken up with this guy for five years now. He is married to someone else and I'm married also. Recently, I have gotten onto myspace as well as a blog site. My myspace blog redirects you to a new blog site. Recently, I put up a tracker and it shows up that he's been looking at my blogs more than anyone else that has come to that particular site. My question is, does this mean he's stalking? If not, what does it mean? Is he over me? Or just curious? Keep in mind that we were together for 8 years, he cheated on me with his wife. Would he regret what he did? I've moved on but has he?
2006-09-17 14:31:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He wants to see if he can cheat on his wife with you
2006-09-17 14:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you have moved on with your life, what do you care if he reads your blogs? After all, don't you post them for other people to read? It's not like he's calling you, following you around, turning up in every place you go, coming to your house uninvited, leaving presents in your mailbox, peeking through your windows, or checking to see if you are reading all of his blog entries...say, you might have something there...maybe he's just curious...perhaps he is even thinking he's the fool who let you go...be happy with your husband and the life you have now and take comfort in the fact that you didn't settle for a cheater. Fare Thee Well...
2006-09-17 21:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not say he was stalking you. He probably still thinks about you and still cares. There is nothing wrong with that. Anyway, the fact that you are wondering about him, makes me wonder if you still are thinking about him? And, why put a tracker on your website? If you put your profile on a website, then, you are out there for all to see. Not exactly being private about your life now. Anyway, I would not worry so much. Just focus on your marriage and being happy in your life.
2006-09-17 21:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you've moved on. All those questions you asked make it sound like you're interested in him. Why do you have a myspace acct & a blog site? Does your husband know this? It sounds like you're not spending enough time with your husband. Seriously, the answer to every single one of your questions is: Why do you care?
2006-09-17 21:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by M W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably nosey and interested in seeing how you've moved on and what you've been up to.
He could very well be living in regret and wanting you. I don't call this "stalking", I call it "excessive curiousity" only because he isn't threatening you or trying to find your number or anything of the such.
Feel good that he is still looking through your stuff because that means he still has some type of feelings and attachment for you. And you, well you can say that you've moved on.
2006-09-17 21:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship lasting that long leaves a connection that nothing can break. I don't believe in true love ever dying. What gets buried can sometimes be dug back up. Anyway, so seems you're curious about him too if you're tracking and finding what he's doing... He's likely just curious about how your life is turning out.
2006-09-17 21:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be curious but most likely he hasn't moved on yet. But give it time. He would eventually figure out you both are going seperate ways and would go back to his wife
2006-09-17 21:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by LiLee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ MW... just not as harsh...
It sounds like it just intrigues you to know he may still care because how many of us wonder if any exes still care or regret their wrongdoings against us...
..but really you shouldn't worry about it since you are married now. Just avoid him if he starts trying to build something back up w/ you..
hell, you already know he can't be trusted...lol
2006-09-17 21:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks he can have both of you if he had the chance.
2006-09-17 21:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to spy on you , to see what your up to...maybe he has some jealously.
2006-09-17 21:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋