You may think that this is daft, but there are times when i cant be bothered making love to my girlfried. We have been together for four months, i love her, but think that i am loosing interest in the bedroom. She is a very attractive girl and i dont know what it is. I am not gay so no funny remarks.
Any advice please.
2006-09-17 14:12:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Four years i meant not months. Sory
2006-09-17 14:18:26 · update #1
You must put you girlfriends needs first, If you dont feel like performing and she is gagging for it, why not invite your mates round, have a bit of a party.
You sure it aint she has gone off you.
Restricting the Booze intake to a Quart per showing of match of the day instead of the usual Gallon and a half might help
2006-09-17 15:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by "Call me Dave" 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes sex becomes too much of a routine and you end up not really satisfied with it because its the same old thing. What you need to do is add spice to it, whether it is trying new positions or go to the sex store buy some vibrator toys for her and you and get some love lotions and such and let me tell you the spice of life gets turned up like 100%..It may feel weird in the beginning but just go with it and you will find yourself looking forward to this each time you have relations with each other. good luck!!!
2006-09-17 21:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read several answers and I agree, there may be some physical or emotional problems, and you may not be aware of them, so maybe a check-up isn't a bad idea. It can't do any harm and will either give answers or eliminate questions in that area.
2006-09-17 21:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you and your girlfriend do not have chemistry in that department.. but you might want to try spice up things a little by not doing it in the bedroom (for example) but in not too traditional places. Try some kamasutra positions too (the easiest ones).
2006-09-17 21:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by latgal73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are under 28, I'd say you should probably go to the doctor and see if there's anything wrong (seriously). If you are in your late 20's or older, your drive is just declining a bit, that's all--and that's normal.
2006-09-17 21:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should roleplay, to make the sex more interesting, or have sex on different places like a hotel or the beach or go camping and do it there. Spice it up a lil bit.
2006-09-17 21:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by ******* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be get to know her, talk to her and keep sex aside figure out what you like about her,if that doesn't work, check ur feelings for her and the circumstances surrounding you, it could the stress,and when non of the above is ur lack of interest then maybe you are just not into her.
2006-09-17 22:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by dersertrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Familiarity breeds if not contempt, then at least complacency. I personally think you are not ready to settle down, reading between the lines. Good luck x
2006-09-17 21:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people who just aren't as interested in sex. But you should definitely see your physician to rule out any possible medical problems.
2006-09-17 21:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by candace b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your just not that into her mentally. You may think she is physically attractive but the emotional aspect may not be there and you may not even be able to see it.
2006-09-17 21:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by maris325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋