You have been married to this person for three years, but one of the people was an ex and the rest were strangers. Would you stay in the marriage and try to make it work or would you say that it is time to leave the marriage because you can't trust that person?
2006-09-17 14:10:01 · 12 answers · asked by Sweetcheeks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Convo is conversation
2006-09-17 14:37:05 · update #1
If by convo you mean conversation, then this is not cheating. Why are you trying to control who he talks to?
If your man treats you well, is a good provider and has sex only with you, then why spoil it by trying to control who he talks to? If you make such strict rules, he is definitely going to break them behind your back.
2006-09-17 14:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all what is convo do you mean conversation. Thats not cheating if you are having a conversation with someone! I believe that there is a reason for everything. but it is an old saying SHAME ON YOU then SHAME ON ME then it is all over with....
2006-09-17 21:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Carol H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to have a talk with your husband ask him to stop because it makes you feel uncomfortable or suggest going to marriage counseling before you consider divorce. That is if these relationships aren't physical and all he's doing is talking. He's probably afraid to talk to you about things that you do that may annoy him. Try talking it out with him. You may hear things you don't want hear but be honest with him too.
2006-09-17 21:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree that conversation with the same person for over a year, especially if on-line sex type conv. can be seen as cheating to the you (See my question from yesterday).
Especially if it the same person. Your spouse is sharing intimate thoughts with someone else that he should be sharing with you.
TALK TO YOUR SPOUSE
2006-09-17 22:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if this man knows he messed up, and is willing to do whatever it takes to stay with you. I know it will take a lot, he has to be so understanding of your emotions and it will take a lot of nuturing for that wound to heal. If you want to give him another chance then, go ahead and do so.
2006-09-17 21:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by inluvwshana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you want to pay child support for some infidelity in the marriage? find out for sure, and go from there. trust your heart and what it says.
2006-09-17 21:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by breaker_1020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused do you mean a conversation or something else when you write "Convo" ? Please be more specific.
Talking to someone is not cheating.
2006-09-17 21:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conversation is not cheating.
Swapping fluids is cheating.
Did you expect that they would never talk to anyone ever again because you are together. Grow Up.
2006-09-17 22:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
r u 4 real convo just convo please there are way bigger things to deal with stay married and grow
2006-09-17 21:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave a cheater to protect your self,once a cheater always a cheater,he will never change,what gos around comes around to them.
2006-09-17 21:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋