ok my best friend is a boy and i'm a girl. I'm 13 n he's 14. so i rlly like-like him, but only sometimes. like 2day, he came over to my house, and i didn't feel that way at all. but usually i always feel that way and even when he's with me i want to kiss him or somethin like that. and i only don't like him somtimes. and i think he likes me to and i want to tell him i like him but i can never manage to do so because he hates talking about that subject and im afraid that if he doesn't actually like me we cant be friends anymore. so what should i do? thanx!
2006-09-17 13:57:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just kiss him when a moment presents itself.
2006-09-17 14:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by sweets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that situation before. I made the wrong decision, so to help you make the right decision I will tell you what I did. I fell in love with my best friend and made my feelings known and we became intimate and a relationship developed. Then a year after in the relationship things began to change we didn't talk like we use to. We finnally had a bitter break up. I can admit things were never the same as they use to be. Now I don't have a freind or a girlfriend. I lost everthing in persuit of an intimate relationship with someone who was closer to me than a sister.
Well thats just my experience I don't know if yours will turn out the same way. But just bear in mind you don't have to rush anything take your time with relationships. Enjoy the time with him as a friend. Let it flow and see where it takes you guys.
2006-09-17 14:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by williamradical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlie.....this is SO a part of growing up. You THINK about being with all of the guys. You basiclly judge them all in your head. Some get higher rates, even if they happen to be your friends. I say enjoy being friends, and don't make this crush thing a big deal. Friendships are (a lot of times) forever, and relationships (at this age) only last a few weeks, or if your lucky, months.
Good Luck! ;-)
2006-09-17 14:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If only sometimes you feel like you like him, than keep him as a friend and nothing more. You see, you only think you like him, when you ust wanna be friends. Sometimes a girl feels so close to a boy she thinks she likes likes him. I know because it once happened to me.
2006-09-17 14:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry! The reason sometimes you dont like him is because your afraid of what will happen to your relationship. Just tell him and if he says he just wants to be friends,respect his opinion. I f he says NO! Hes not worth it!
2006-09-17 14:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ariana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, puppy love. why does he hate talking about the subject? maybe its cuz he likes you and doesn't accidentally wanna spill the beans! just give him a note saying something like: hey! i was too nurvous to tell you in person, so here it is. i like you! and if ya wanna, try asking him out! ooh! i wish i could find out the result!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-17 14:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by ~Pom!~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to make him fall madly in love with you - is show him you can make nice cakes AND be quiet when football's on TV.
2006-09-17 14:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok go to get a free makeover thing at like a salon or mall then flirt like CRAZY then ask him out but like make sure u like him then
2006-09-17 14:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by sashiegirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you really like him...sounds more like lust to me if you just want to kiss him. And your 13 anyways, you dont need a boyfriend and this time...enjoy your youth!
2006-09-17 14:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do all that u like do not fear . be faithfull,simple,...
2006-09-17 14:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋