I would like to ask all the ladies out there a question. in a relationship whats more important to you the sex or the mental and phisical bonding
2006-09-17 13:35:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'll be honest ..... when I was younger, the sex was more important than it is now. But through the years, I've matured mentally and I need more mental bonding. I need that friend to be right there with me. But don't get me wrong, I do enjoy good sex.
2006-09-17 13:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by lipstick7000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL the most important is mental & phisical bonding.
sex is only a thing of the moment, sex is what a lot of people look for, BUT they are looking for the wrong thing, anyone can get sex, BUT without the bonding what is there after the sex, a lot of couples over the years either lose there sex drive or by illness it is taken from them. SO if they only there for sex then that would be another divorce on the cards,
if you truly love someone then you are happy for them to just be there with you weather or not sex is involved. SO if you want to be with a partner just ask yourself IF we could NEVER have sex again would i still want to be with this person. & if the answers yes then that IS the person you love. SO, NEVER put sex first because once its gone you have NOTHING.
2006-09-17 20:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mental and physical bonding. Sex comes easy if those two are met.
2006-09-17 21:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need mental bonding more than great sex but I like sex also..
2006-09-17 20:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by lol_des 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both are important but if I have to choose one, I would have to go with mental, physical, and emotional bonding.
2006-09-17 20:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my personal opinion is the mental and physical bonding. Thats what seems to last forever.
2006-09-17 20:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by wait_and_bleed_05 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the sex has 2 be good but if u have the mental & physical makes it SO much better, id rather have the second one if i had 2 choose
2006-09-17 20:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by jd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need my best friend for sure, but if I just wanted a friend, I wouldn't have gotten married. I would've just had a friend w/ benefits. The emotional is what brings a relationship together, the sex enforces it.
2006-09-17 21:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by breaker_1020 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mental and physical bonding for sure...
2006-09-17 20:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by kristy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mental & physical bondin, then sex.
2006-09-17 20:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by trishelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋