2006-09-17 12:53:57 · 23 answers · asked by Naazneen D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends. If he says it only once in a while, it could mean that he's just tired or stressed and doesn't feel like having sex. If he says it all the time then u have a problem and u need to get to the bottom of why he doesn't want to have sex with u.
2006-09-17 12:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. But I if it is constant I would ask him if he is sleeping with someone else if he doesn't want to have sex with you he must be getting it somewhere. Kinda say it as a joke and see how he reacts.
Maybe he is depressed or is having something wrong going on down there if you know what I mean. But here is a little hint. I am married and have a crush on someone, and can't get them out of my mind, I still love my husband but for some reason I just can't stop fantasizing about this other man. So when my honey wants to have sex I don't feel like it because all I can think about is this other man. We have a happy life but I don't know. This could be happening with your husband. There is no way to really find out though, because people don't usually express that they are thinking about someone else to their spouse. So just make known your concern to him about how you feel and see what he says.
2006-09-17 20:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tightrope walking issue here....sex...ego...man's....these area are taboo for men
....a few things may be going on here...too much stress in his life, on his job perhaps...or even at home. Stress plays a major role a mans sex life. As does too much alcohol, not enough rest,
prostrate issues. Porn addiction, masturbation...so many things could be dampening the sex drive he once had. Give him some space and don't pry too much...be careful you do not hurt his ego...this is a psychological thing with a man that can destroy a good relationship if your approach is wrong....go get counseling for yourself...pray about it...and be careful what you say to him.
Marriage is a job God has granted you...be a good employee and
do what is best in the long run...not having your sexual needs met on demand should not be your focus over the long haul your relationship with him is!
2006-09-17 20:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your marriage is over. Is he saying this only once in a while or all of the time? It is probably stress and his job or it might be timing. If he never wants to have sex and you really need the connection, you need to get counseling or the very least have a heart to heart talk with him because it will grow to be a huge issue. It could be the beginining of the end.
2006-09-17 20:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex shouldn't be everything in a marriage. If your husband doesn't want to have sex then you shouldn't be worrying about whether or not the marriage is over. You should be worrying about whether or not he is stressing unecessarily.
Sometimes men have too many things on their mind to put their all into sex. so your best bet would be to be as understanding as you possibly can, and just be there for him. If it continues on an on and nothing's changing then I would suggest marriage counselling.
2006-09-17 20:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by daredevil2b4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on a lot of things:
1. Is this something he said once, says occasionally or is it his constant state?
2. Is he having Erectile Dysfunction? If so, it could be caused by physical problems rather than your relationship.
3. If it isn't going to change, you need to discuss whether either of you cannot accept or don't want a sexless marriage.
2006-09-17 20:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time you can think that it is a mature conversation.
Then if this conversation cames back too frequent, then that is another story; and something has to be done. If not, time and rutine will take care of whatever is left.
2006-09-17 20:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your marriage ended over that well it probably wasn't that secure in the first place. He's probably tires, stressed or just masturbated. Ask him why he doesn't want to? Then maybe you can help him out.
2006-09-17 20:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has his days too like us females so don't think because he turns you down once or twice the marriage is over!!! you sound like you might be a little insecure in yourself don't take it personally!!! here's a little something that might cheer you up during football season i'm often turned down because of a game that is on!!! i'm a football widow!!! i hope this helps some.
2006-09-17 20:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not neccesarily. Mine has said something similar before - and we're still going strong.
Should he feel the same as you do when you tell him that you're too tired?
2006-09-17 20:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋