I am 13, First of all I am scared i am bi, i dont want to have sex, a relationship, or marry a girl. I love boys, i have a boyfriend. But i am so scared i am bi, i dont want to be bi. But like sometimes i think about girls kissing and having sex. Or sometimes i think about kissing girls and having sex with girls. I HATE TO HAVE THESE THOUGHTS!!!!! They are so GROSS, but its like i cant controll my mine, i say to myself STOP and that sometimes works. My mom tells me that it is just a phase, and it will go away, but i dont belivle that!!! I hate thinking i am bi, its taking over my life, i set around and cry, I HATE IT!!!! Its like one week it goes away, and one week it comes back. These thoughts have been going on for about a month and 2 weeks. Please someone help me. I need help and advice, i am 13 and i dont want to be living my life this way, i want to have fun, not set around, cry and think i am Bi!!! I AM SICK OF IT!!!!!
2006-09-17 12:43:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Alternative Medicine
There is nothing wrong with you and your thoughts, we have all had those from time to time, it means that you are just curious. Stop sweating the small stuff and just get on with your life.
2006-09-17 13:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
... Okay, no more caffeine for you. Stop with the sugar, too. CALM DOWN! First off, there's ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with being bisexual. Do NOT let crazy Christian people try to sway you, okay? If anything, it's better because you get the best of both worlds, and if you LIKE the kissing girls and sex with them or whatever (even THOUGH you're 13... *sigh*), then why would it be gross? Human nature isn't gross. I think you'll learn and realize that as you get older and start to accept the world more. Usually, people your age care more about fitting in at this point, but when you get into high school, you start really finding what kind of person you are.
By the way, I'm omnisexual, meaning I like EVERYTHING... age, gender, race, SPECIES, it doesn't matter to me. It's all good in my opinion. Just don't discriminate against other people because they're different, and don't hate yourself because you think YOU'RE different. Frankly, heteros are boring, scared, panicky little things who have to have everything THEIR way, so be proud that you're more open-minded than they are.
Lastly, whatever you do, don't become a conservative/republican! That's the best piece of advice I have for you. lol
2006-09-17 12:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You are normal. Don't upset your self about it. All girls have these thoughts. Life at 13 is hard enough, give yourself a little room to breathe.
2006-09-17 12:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom was right you will be ok ...I am sure it is human nature .. I cried a lot aT 13 believe me if you can survive your age all is up hill from here
Hang in Kid
2006-09-17 15:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well im 13 too.i understand...its things u c and it makes u curious....a lot of ppl think bout things like that but u dont have to cry...thats reel bad.
2006-09-17 12:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are turned on by these thoughts then you are not bi or a lesbian for that matter.
2006-09-17 12:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Ring Ring Ring Bananaphone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to pray hard.and also u have to take part in any sports activities so that u can forget those things.samuel from ghana
2006-09-17 12:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by rich love 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋