My son is five and is having a hard time in kindergarten. I think alot of it has to do with the teacher. She is constantly telling me about his behavior and leaving out the other important information like the learning part.
2006-09-17 12:08:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Take it to the Principal, if you feel she is not doing her job correctly.
2006-09-17 12:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a teacher, I would not recommend going to the principal. If a parent complained to the principal about me, I would be very offended and it would seriously damage my relationship with that parent.
Instead, I would suggest talking directly to the teacher. Show her that you are only interested in promoting your child's education and that you are willing to do whatever it takes to do that. The teacher is not your enemy! She probably wants your child to learn too. She might be feeling frustrated, though.
I think you should contact her and ask if you can set up a meeting. Tell her that you're very concerned about your child's progress in her class. Ask her exactly what the problem with his behavior is. Then brainstorm solutions that you two can implement together, to help your child conform to classroom rules and expectations. Also, when you meet with the teacher, don't be afraid to say, "I see that you're concerned about my child's behavior, but you haven't told me much about his academic progress. How is he doing in that department? Can I see some of his work?"
Often times, behavior problems stem from academic difficulties - although that is not always the case. I find that students who are struggling with the work (for whatever reason; there are many) act up in order to avoid the work, or out of boredom. Perhaps the teacher doesn't realize that this is what's happening. You need to sit down with her and find out what she expects your child to be able to do. Then you can sit down with your child at home and see for yourself whether he is on track.
The important point is that you not treat the teacher like you are on opposite sides. Even if she isn't your favorite person in the world, your son is stuck with her for the next nine months. So you want to have as positive and productive a relationship with the teacher as you can.
2006-09-17 14:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by dark_phoenix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some teachers have a difficult time dealing with even simple behavior problems. They lack the patience to be effective in this area. I would discuss your concerns with the school principal and/or guidance counselor and see if your child can be moved to another classroom. Address your concerns with your child's new teacher immediately, so he/she knows your expectations.
2006-09-17 12:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by TJMiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ... School, Boy, 5 years old, and disipline problems.. I think ADHD. Better get him tested and if it turns out to be an issue make sure the school addresses it with an IEP. It's the law. Talk to the school or school system psychologist and don't take no for an anwser.
The link below is the definition. Be sure to read it carefully and DO NOT make a diagnosis youself.
2006-09-17 12:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Squid Vicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for your son to be independently evaluated. If he does have behaviour problems, address them in the way you are advised. If he does have behaviour problems, there may be little to convey to you regarding his learning and that is why the teacher isnt telling you of such. If he does not have any behaviour problems, speak to the principal about possibly transferring him to another class or have the principal speak with the teacher.
2006-09-17 13:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the Principle and the school board.
2006-09-17 12:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋