Im currently leaving with my babies daddy but I met some one at work wich I cant stop thinking off.He is actually someone I get along with realy well,he is always out there trying new things and is very outgoing...thats the type of guy I always dreamed of.
2006-09-17 11:58:43 · 12 answers · asked by sexy! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well each to their own BUT before you dash off to new pastures I would try and work out why you are so open to starting something new when you dont actually say if anything is wrong with what you already have............
For instance if the man you live with now [baby's daddy] was mean and did not help out, blah blah blah, then I could see you looking outside for some love and support but IF I read this right, its just that the new man is a bit newer and more exciting...TRUST me exciting is nice but not for the long haul, if the baby's daddy is a good man then maybe he deserves a little more than you are giving at the moment.................also if the new man is SOOOOOOOOO outgoing how are you going to feel when he is JUST as outgoing and yet you are stuck at home looking after your kids and not out with him, why should he sit at home and play daddy....they are not his..and if he does sit at home and play daddy does this mean you are going to want the next guy that's new and different.
Base line here is this................if you are going to leave the kids dad then do so.............just do it for any reason OTHER than a new bit on the side.........if you leave then spend sometime on your own with the kids and decide where you want o go with your life and THEN you can move onto a new man, be it this one at work or not.
2006-09-17 12:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by candy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your legs together for a change and quit being so self centered. You now have at least one baby to think about. The child should come first in your life. So what is most important to you answer that and you will have an answer to the rest of your question
2006-09-17 12:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im confused,don't you meaning your living with him. Make sure the new guy likes kids and is interested in you before you do something big. You should do what makes you happy, but put your kids first
2006-09-17 12:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're leaving; going someplace? Or are you shacked up with your bf? If you don't love your bf, why are you making babies with him?
You're on dangerous turf girl. You've got wandering eyes. Either make it perm with your bf, and get married, or leave him clean. Don't start something before you do. You can get someone killed!
2006-09-17 12:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have kids to think about. Does this other guy even want to date you? You clearly are bored with what you have. Talk to your BF and try to fix things.
2006-09-17 12:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you shoukd do is all three of you come together and you let it be known that you are in a situation and you do live with your baby father, but you are interested in the other person, and what you and the baby father had is gone.
2006-09-17 12:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feckless.
2006-09-17 12:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is going to stop you what you want but what brings you the future I don't know. I'll be not so optimistic with your decision -
God bless you.
2006-09-17 12:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch old news and go after the new guy
:)
2006-09-17 12:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you leaving too?
Why don't you just have sex with the new guy, no one will know.
2006-09-17 12:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋