what do woman want from any man, when they want something they want the men to gess what they want. i want to know how to get a girl to understand me, an the same way around.
2006-09-17 11:56:59 · 23 answers · asked by dagmawi a 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
money and lots of it
2006-09-17 11:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
women make you guess, beacause they want it to be your idea , and not something you feel obliged to do . you have not given an example of a situation so i will make one up. a common one, mind you.
it is sonday morning and the woman is busy cleaning up the place and trying to get some order, the man is idle on the couch reading the paper. the woman does not usually mind doing the moajority of the work , but now and again would like a helping hand. she starts to get heavy handed with the hoover and slams the washing machine door a bit loud. this is a clue that the man would be idiotic not to pick up. the woman wants you to get off your a55 and help , not because she expects it , but because you want to as you realise that she would also like some time off. the secret is that you want to.
it takes time to get to know a person intimately enough ,so that you can read between the lines. until then , suggest to her ,that you would like to be open with each other ,so that there are no misunderstandings. any woman should be pleased that you are willing to open up ,as men are often seen as secretive about their emotions , needs and worries. how can a woman be expected to be forthcoming ,when she is up against the secret service herself?
as someone earlier said, get out there and read up on these issues. instead of feeling naf, you will see through certain situations with ease. personally I recommend any book by Tony Humphreys.
yes we do tend to make you guess, but please don't steroetype us, just as you would not like us to say that all men are insensitive to our feelings, and only after one thing.
2006-09-18 07:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by saywot? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understanding, compassion, put the freakin toilet seat down, do dishes once in a while, do not run off to the toilet after dinner to avoid clearing the table, do not tell me that i have enough shoes: i can never have enough, do not tell me my *** is getting bigger, if i want to go to the hairdressers every 4 weeks - do not question me, if i don't want to have sex every night - do not question me: i just don't feel like it as often as you do, do i need to go on???
2006-09-17 19:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book " Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" you will probably be none the wiser, but at least you can claim to have tried to understand.
2006-09-17 19:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want someone who loves me for who I am, who wants to be with me, who will console me when I cry over a sappy movie, someone that will treat me like a queen, rub my feet when they are sore, my back when I am tired, and most of all someone who wants to have a family and is grown up because I dont wanna be his mother
2006-09-17 19:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. An endless supply of money.
2. obedience.
simple as that!
2006-09-17 19:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by toby48315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always find that if I want to know what someone is thinking or wanting, that asking them gets the best results.
2006-09-17 18:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's like asking what's in the ocean. There's a billion freaking things out there, and trust me, you can't sum it up in one sentence.
2006-09-17 19:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big red bulbous mickey when nobody is looking. That's the truth, my son!
2006-09-17 18:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by dalusdec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one person that knows but they don't want to let him out of his padded sell
2006-09-17 19:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by Nic d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOMEN WANT SOMEONE WHO THEY CAN TRUST!WE LIKE TO FEEL SPECIAL.WE WANT TO NO THAT WE COME BEFORE FOOTBALL FRIENDS BUT AT THE SAME TIME THEY ARE STILL INDIVIDUALS AND THEY RESPECT THE PERSON THEY WERE BEFORE AND NOT TRY TO CHANGE THEM.
2006-09-21 18:33:11 · answer #11 · answered by ISABELLE F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋