First let me say that this is complicated issues sort of, well for me it is. Here's the Low down, I'm gay, I've know that I was gay since about 4th grade. But I've never acted on it or anything, I've had girls like me during high school, but I never showed it back. Instead of people saying I was gay, they would just say I was nerdy. Currently I'm in my 2nd year of college. With a roommate, I'm about 88.9% sure is gay. This is what I'm basing my facts onhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq6r_11ddKs0sO3_g1_YcLLsy6IX?qid=20060915052427AAQ3CQK
. Maybe he is bi. I don't know. But I'm ready to like experience things. But I'm sort of the shy type, and Bars really arent my things, Well I can't say, I've never been to a bar before. And I'm more of the loner type, the introvert. Shoul I try to meet guys on line. Basically looking for place to make gay friends, talk to someone who's like been through this too. Does any have any tips or know of any places, to meet others.
2006-09-17 11:56:55 · 7 answers · asked by Raziel 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Should I like make a 360 page, or go to myspace, what sites do you reccomend, etc.
Any advice would be great or welcomed.
2006-09-17 11:58:29 · update #1
From what you say in other post I think its fairly clear that your roomie is gay.
You should talk to him about this. Say something like "Hey I didn't you was gay" (while laughing at the same time). Hold out your hand in a friendly gesture while you're doing this so he knows you're not hitting on him.
It sounds to me like he will know other gays so maybe you can take it from there.
Otherwise, join in with LGBT activities in your college. Try dressing a bit sharper, perhaps you could try wearing tighter pants, putting a sock in your underwear, get a good haircut, try looking better. Look at mags and pick out some dude you'd like to look like, try the image. You're in yr 2nd year in college so man it's really time you started having a sex life. Really this can be the most carefree time of your life, you can try things out, see what your tastes are, make a fool of yourself, really ...
2006-09-17 12:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online isnt the safest place to meet quality men, but I suppose if your real picky and careful, you could meet someone. Maybe try going to the gym? Maybe some type of mens gay support group? Unfortunatly, most gay men hang out at the clubs to meet. But Im sure you could find someplace other if you try hard enough. Good luck.
2006-09-17 12:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd avoid online, you'll probably have married men hitting on your for "discrete relationships".
Doesn't your campus have some gay organizations? How about a local Fairness or Pride group? Use google to search GAY and your town for organizations.
2006-09-17 13:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 02:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your college will have a GLBT group, and if not then go ahead and form one. Outside of that it really depends on what you're looking for. It might help if you let people know which city you're in so that those who live there as well can give you more details.
2006-09-17 12:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-17 13:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-17 12:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋