my old-bestfriend got her hair cut and now she has changed too much. now she is wearing a thong to school, see-through shirts! we are only in the 7th GRADE!!!! what do i do?
2006-09-17 11:56:24 · 21 answers · asked by Kellogs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
y is she ur old best friend? is it cause of her new found sluttiness or is it cause u 2 grew apart. if its cause u grew apart then say nothing. if u've grown apart because of her new look then i would talk to her, and i no this sounds lame but maybe talk to her parents about it
2006-09-17 11:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by cutie123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, since she is your best friend, take time to talk to her one on one about her drastic changes. Explain to her that there are ways to be beautiful and sexy without being trashy (the see through shirts). There's nothing wrong with wearing thongs UNLESS she is wearing them halfway out of her pants on purpose so people (guys in particularly) can look. Inform her that you don't want people to get the wrong impression of her and that you're just looking out for her.
If she gets mad or doesn't change then there's nothing else you can do but move on to new friends and stop hanging with someone so classless.
2006-09-17 12:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLY CRAP!? In 7th grade? Well there's not much you can do about it, i mean teachers or something will eventually try stuff but all you can do is dissassociate with her. people change soemtimes. you could talk to her but if she insists on being that way then you need to stop being around her or you'll end up like her or people will think of you when they think of her, know wat i mean? just tell her that wat she's doing isn't right, its gross, most of us guys would be like "wow daayummm" but we're also most of us not going to give her any real attention cos .. you klnow, she's .. acting like a slut.. so.. yea. just tell her she should change and if she deosn't then... too bad i guess.. make new better frineds..
2006-09-17 12:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth but skip the slut part and tell her no one dress like that, she needs to see that she will be disrespected by dressing like that and she probly already is. Tell her you know she is only trying to look good but is going the oppisite. Tell her she looked better before the hair and she needs to dress apporpetly, if its about guys, remind her that the only good reasonble guys will be to scared to ask or too disgusted by her wear.
2006-09-17 12:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why is she's doing this (in private)
Maybe it's because she wants attention from boys.
If she tells you her reason, you should tell her to stop
dressing like a ****, 'cause it's asking for the wrong attention
and it's giving the wrong impression about her.
2006-09-17 12:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by cass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing that I would do is to tell her when you are where their are no ears to hear what you say. Tell her how worried you are about her behavor and tell her why. Tell her how you fell when youi see her looking like that. Honesty is still the best policy
2006-09-17 12:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Speedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. and possibly leave her. I know you dont want to hear this but 7th and 8th grades are when you find new friends :*(
2006-09-17 11:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by Airzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and wait for her to be raped... I know that sounds bad, but that's what she's actin' like she wants. In all reality, I'd slap the h*ll outta' her.
2006-09-17 11:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has serious issues and probably needs abuse counselling. But you don't want her rep following you, if you feel uncomfortable get a new BF
2006-09-17 11:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose her, to many girls are dressing like **uts so dont try to be anythiung like her, but when she needs a good friend to cry on, be there for her
2006-09-17 11:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by girlygeek1991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋