I made a big mistake i wont go into it but i really hurt someone with this mistake and now i have lost them but i want them back i cant stand living without them i have tried to apoligive but she just stonewalls me i have tried everyhting i want them back in my life but i dont know how i should go about it
2006-09-17 11:52:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yr like my "whats going on in my life" twin.... even i went through the exact same thing.. the only difference is that the person was a guy... the most stuborn person ive ever met. DONT EVER GIVE UP... let some time pass by.. you know what? even i did something (nothing major then to our ego's clashed) that we dint land up speaking for 1 whole month!! every one noticed.. my neighbours... cousins every1.. so dont think u are the only one facing such problems... wait... make her a nice sorry card and really mean what ever u write in the card... Dont let that mistake happen again and appologize for yr mistake that y such a misunderstanding happened...
best of luck... if i can help further im me...
:) best of luck...... cheers
2006-09-17 12:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by outtanicks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done your best and that is not working so best thing is to give it up and forgive yourself and get comfortable with the fact that you are a human being that will live and learn by other mistakes that you make.
Move on as they are not worth the turmoil that your putting your self in, also it takes time for hurts to heal and if you continue to pursue and push your self onto these pple then your not respecting there choice or their own pain so pull your self back and wait for what ever will be.
2006-09-21 08:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people no matter what the mistake is never forgive and never forget. they would be just like me and no matter what you do will not change that. in fact the more you try the more pissed off they become. i know this from experience and believe me i don't like being this way i just am. sorry if that don't help but if they don't come around soon you may just have to let them go.
2006-09-17 19:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation. All I can say is it is almost 3 years later and the hoops I still have to jump through is getting worse. Tell them ur tru feelings and be honest about ur mistake. If they reallyl ove you..they will come back and work through this with you! Good Luck!
2006-09-17 22:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by Angeleyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but you have to move on, she won't forgive you, and you can't do anything to make her change her mind, you have tried so find another who is more understanding. you have learnt your lesson SO never repeat the mistake with any one new. and believe me you will find another in time.for now you are sad & it seem's hard without her, but try going to new places & join a club etc & soon you will feel better.all the best to you.
2006-09-17 23:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her who is she not to forgive you. don't god forgive her when she do things wrong.we all commit wrong things on this earth no one is perfect, if she do not forgive you find the strength and get over that person because that person do not love ypu the way you love her, there are to many people on this earth to be stuck on one person, there is someone for everyone remember that. i bet when you find someone else she will show interest again. put the love for her into someone else.
2006-09-17 18:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, if she cant forgive you, you really shouldnt be his or her friend. people deserve second chances in life, and if they dont respect you for that, you shouldnt try anymore.
2006-09-17 18:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you might want to call it quits. You made your bed so you have to lie in it.
2006-09-17 19:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋