Why do men think they have the right to use a womens body (sexually) whenever they want just because they are in a longterm relationship. Is this because men feel inferioir to women and need to prove they are not. Do many relations brake up because of the males inability to accept this as abuse.
Needs answer for a book on male egos, beliefs and sexuality.
2006-09-17 11:00:46 · 16 answers · asked by InSight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Married men do not "use" women for sex. To use would mean exploiting or to take advantage of unfairly but its a womens body so she has the option to say no. Obviously men enjoy sex so its natural for them to try and reach that end but I don't feel it has any relation to ego.
A better question would be why do married women give into sexual pressure from their spouse if they do not wish to participate. A feeling of inferiority or possibly they feel its the only way they can keep their spouse coming home to them.
Now if you are refering to a male physically forcing himself onto a female that scenario extends beyond the confines of marriage. In this case men abusing women is a primal feeling of dominance over the subject but can also include other males.
2006-09-17 11:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by se7en 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men's sex drive has a lot to do with their egos. Men's egos are
as sensitive as women's feelings...Women get their feelings hurt and are allowed to cry. When a man's ego is hurt...same thing...so as far as your book goes...perhaps this will help. If a woman gave it up once in the relationship, he expects more! If the woman never gave it up...the man is still wanting...if the couple is not married...there are no rights on expecting sex unless as I said before practiced.
2006-09-17 11:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was quite funny to read the headline to your question...."Why do men think..." cuz I'm not so sure we do at all times! But to answer your question. Its the caveman or Neanderthal mentality in men that make them think like that. Like they should just knock women in the head and drag 'em back to the cave for their own pleasure. If women allow it to happen then they will do it again. Just know that not all men are like this, some are better but there again some are worse. That is why there are more men in prison for sexually based crimes than women!
2006-09-17 11:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do this luckily.
But I think that some do because they may feel insignificant if they can't 'pleasure' a woman.
But the men have to realize that not all women wants is sexual activity.
Some men seem to neglect the way women feel about this and try to force them into engaging in sexual activity.
They think that just because they like to engage in sexual activity a lot that the female should feel the same way about it.
2006-09-17 11:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women think they have a right to use sex for money, dinners, flowers, jewelry etc etc from men?? In other words the same as prostitution.
I need answers on female egos and their use of sex for the exploitation of men.
2006-09-17 11:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that is the way ALL men feel or think. I know my wife would NOT let me USE her body whenever I want....Hmmm....I could try and get back to you with results once I get out of the hospital LOL
2006-09-17 11:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your question it may stem from the stone ages. When men were the more aggressive of the species and it is a primordial thought process to take what is yours.
2006-09-17 11:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dorkboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that, sex is only part of the relation, you must have love, caring, understanding, friendship and respect also.
2006-09-17 11:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to think you are not suggesting that a guy's desire to have sex, often more often than their partner, is some sort of abuse.
But the temor of your question sounds like you are a guy basher.
You're writing the book. You tell us.
2006-09-17 11:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not generilise. All men are not like that.They can only use a woman's body as much / long as she allows him to.
2006-09-17 11:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋