Can you controll if you're gay or not?

Question

I'm not gay and, I, personally do not want to be, but, if I did could I change?

Answer 1

u cant control if ur gay or not cuz how u feel towards someone will always b there not matter how hard u try.

Answer 2

I never thought of being with another girl in that way. My good girl friend is bi and she says that one day she just found females attractive! I dont think its a choice but something that changes the way you look at the same sex!! So, I think you can change but not unless you feel its the right thing for you to do! So yes you could change if you wanted to be gay.

Answer 3

You can be responsible for your actions. There are a lot of things I would like to do in life but I choose not to do. I think that 15 year old girls are the prettiest there are . They were the most enjoyable when I was also 15 . Now I am 60 I dont try to molest little girls even though I was born that way. People these days want to do perverse things and blame it on anything other that themselfs.

Answer 4

You can choose how to think about yourself and the world. You cannot choose how you feel or who attracts you. Those things just happen whether you choose or not. Straights and gays can't decide one day to be the other way. Bisexual people can, but even for bi's it's almost always about the person, not an intellectual choice about attraction to someone's sex.

Answer 5

You cant controll it. It is the way that you were born to be. Sure you can reject it and marry the oppisite sex but you would still be gay. You cant change that fact its like you cant change being a girl. (You can with surgery but thats not the point!) Point is you cant change it, it is you.

Answer 6

For one day, just walk around and TRY to be gay. If you're mostly straight, you probably won't get too far with that. I'm personally mostly gay; I HAVE walked around for several years trying to be straight: guess what? Doesn't work.

Answer 7

I answered this question a while back, but I'll repeat it since you're a different person asking. Homosexuality, contrary to popular belief, is not a lifestyle, nor is it a choice. People are born with that predisposition, and whether they accept it or not, they cannot change. Some gay men will marry straight women and even have children with them, for the sake of their careers, or to please their families, but eventually their preference for their own sex will emerge. The same can be said for lesbians. Bisexuals can go either direction, gay or heterosexual. You are what you are.

Answer 8

I don't know if you meet the right gay persons. They might convice you to change .On the other hand I have read and heard on the radio that a person who has gay friends finds it eaiar to get memberrs of the oppiste sex.

Answer 9

The american Assoc. of Psychology/Pyschiatry now acknowledges the basis for homo erotic preferences is genetical based. re enforced in some situations by environment but no you are either gay or not. There are many people who experiment sexually, or indulge in relations with both sexes, this can be a choice. and in turth we are all capable of falling in love with either sex, we just learn societal values that re enforce hetrosexuality - opposite gender attraction.

Answer 10

No, you definitely cannot. Do not believe what the religious fundamentalists tell you about "former gays" who supposedly stopped being gay. Those people were either bisexuals who simply shifted their focus to women or liars who are still secretly homosexual.

Answer 11

The best way to answer your question is to ask yourself this;
As a straight person, can you choose to be gay? In your mind try hard to stop being sexually and emotionally attracted to the opposite sex and to then be sexually attracted to the same sex. Can you do it?