Someone I love, all of a sudden decided to get into weed, coke, ice and other drugs. On top of that he's joined a gang. I don't know what to do. I am so devastated. Should I call the cops? He's so young and smart, but is making horrible decisions that could cost him his life. The family he lives with lets him get away with it. I'm so desperate for an answer!
2006-09-17 10:18:55 · 10 answers · asked by butterfly07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
decide if your willing to ruin your life for someone who doesn't care about his or yours. Girl run.....if he loves you and cares as much as you do for him, he will get help...straighten out and have a good life....Obviously he needs help...but you should worry about yourself first:) good luck and don't be a doormat for no one...no matter how much you think you love this guy
2006-09-17 10:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's almost impossible to try to make some one change what they are doing. But You can ask him what does really matter in his life gangs and drugs which always lead to hard times or death. Or does he want the love and caring of the people who really do give a ****. Tell him to take it from someone who has been down that road and if he don't want to listen set up a trip to a prison there alot of people there that can tell him what it's like.
2006-09-17 10:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by helix71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 02:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him unless you want to end up in hell, too.
He must hate himself to do this, and will probably hate everyone around him, or blame them, for his fate.
You can't control him, and you didn't cause this behavior. You are the only person you can control----spend all your time and energy and emotions on taking care of yourself.
2006-09-17 10:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he wants to be stupid and do things then more power to him. Don't call you when he gets himself in trouble. He gets himself in these messes and he can figure out a way to get himself out of them. All he needs to know is that you're not putting up with it and he's not dragging you down with his stupidity.
2006-09-17 10:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well his into drugs. that means for you hang around him it can cost your life to go down the drain. you dont need that person cause it can hurt you the person you love is gone bad. leave him in move on. that's not what you want to have for your lover.
2006-09-17 10:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be realistic, there is nothing you can do. He will make his own decisions, and ruin his own life.
2006-09-17 10:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i have to say is, if you truley love this person, then you should get him help..... if i were in your shoes, i would rather him be mad at me for getting him help then having him loose his life and me feeling guilty about it because i didnt do anything..... i hope that helps.....
2006-09-17 10:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sierra D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his parents who can help him. no matter what he says he doesnt know wat hes talking about he cud get himself killed you have to help him or you could never forgive yourself for it.
tell either a doctor a social worker his parents a thearapist anyone that can help just tell some one and keep yourself safe
good luck =)
2006-09-17 10:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh call 911 now!!
2006-09-17 10:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋